THE BACHELOR PARTY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

About a month my FH went to one of friends Bachelor Party (He's not in our wedding party)!
My FH came home and told me everything.....They Went out to dinner then a bar and a strip club..... All I was fine with but then my FH told me that the groom to be:

1) Got a hotel room for himself for the night

Get ready cause this is the big one....


2) The groom to be and the best man were
search around the strip club to get one of the strippers/prostitutes to go back with the groom to his hotel for the night........

My FH told me that he asked the groom.
"Dude, are you really going to do this, your getting married next weekend?"

The groom told my FH to "chill out and that it's his bachelor party and that he was bringing his night down.....
I was shocked..........

I'm fine with a strip club BUT: when I hear

HOTEL ROOM
STRIPPER IN HOTEL ROOM
PROSTITUTES
OUT FOR THE NIGHT.
Not going to happen................
Just wanted to hear your thoughts on this slime ball and what you have discussed about Bachelor Parties with your FH..

Thanks,
-Jenn

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I told my FH not to do anything stupid becasue I WILL leave his *** at the altar



He's smarter than that

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Since i'm not marrying a jerk, he will not be bringing back prostitutes to his room. Theyr'e not even going to a strip club. they're going skiing.


That poor bride has no idea what she's getting into if that groom thinks a bachelor party is a free ride (literally)

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i really hope that story is no true! (though unfortunately i am sure it is) that poor bride!!

my Fh is going to vegas with his friends one weekend and then going another weekend to AC. so he is having 2. i am not worried about any of the potential horrors - so i really don't want to start.

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My FH is afraid of strippers. He is going to AC for his party and I am not worried.

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That is so sad!!! Thankfully I'm not marrying a LOSER like that and obviously by the comment your FI said to him, neither are you!! Kudos to your FI for having respect for women. It makes you wonder, if this guy us doing that at his bachelor party, why bother getting married? I would suspect this is not the first time he's cheated on his FI. Obviously he has no self respect and clearly NO respect for his FI, because who would want to hook up with a HOOKER??!! GROSS!!! What a shame... That poor, poor girl.

Honestly, I think it's stories like this that make brides worry about their own FI's BP!! Thank goodness I trust my FI and know he would never do anything like that to me!

Message edited 8/12/2005 11:28:45 AM.

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My FH is not going to have a Bachelor Party. But if he was trust me i would have a spy.

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Terrible - but it happens all the time, and not only MEN, but WOMEN do it too.

Who knows, this guy could have been cheating the entire time on his FI....

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WOW--- that is somthing--we have not talked about it- he will probalbly just go to a bar- and i'll go to a club-- if we even go out at all

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I think thats horrible and he doesnt love her if he could do that -

I am not worried at all about what my FH would every do because he was the BEST MAN at a wedding and the groom wanted to go to AC - FH went the Groom was haning out with some girl and was going to take her up to his room my FH was so turned off he got a car service and came home leaving the groom to be and the rest of his friends down there I was so proud of him!

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I am all for a bachelor party with strippers. My FH has never been to a strip club (and I have) and he is super shy, I think it would be so funny. I would love to have a joint party and buy him a lap dance or two. But I don't think that idea will fly!


I do however draw the line at prostitutes.

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I think what your FI's friend did is disgusting and disrespectful. I have NO problem w/ Matt having a blow out bach. party w/ all the strippers in the world. I KNOW matt is so respectful and would NEVER even consider having those indecent things go on at his party.

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Posted by itslaurie.

I do however draw the line at prostitutes.

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Do I smell Divorce in the future???

Its a god ridden shame.

Thank god Im not marrying a reject like that.

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In my opinion a guy ( or any person) does not need a bachelor party-drinks, etc to cheat-he will do it right under your nose if that is the type of person he is.....

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I am not worried my FH h as gone to strip clubs with his brothers for parties and he always comes home to me he isn't in to the strip clubs. I trust my FH. This guy is just a slimeball and he doesn't need a bachlore party to cheat I am sure he has been cheating on his bride to be while they were dating and probably will cheat after they are married. I am sure you don't have to worry about anything since the comment your FH made to this jerkoff

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oh, his poor Fiance

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My FH and his friends are heading to Amsterdam for his bachelor party. People think I am crazy because I am so laid back about it, but I am really not concerned because whatever they do in Amsterdam they can do here in the Vegas or anywhere for that matter.

Fact is if I guy wants to cheat he is going to find a way and I am not concerned about my FH cheating because I know him and he has told me time and time again that he has no reason or desire to cheat.

I just have to trust the man I am marrying.

That said, what your FI's friend did at his B-Party is not cool!

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I feel bad for the bride, her husband-to-be is a piece of trash.....Thank God for my Anthony.

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Thank god for my Anthony too!

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that's beyond horrible.

i have a story for you. when fi & i first started dating he told me about one of his friend's bachelor parties. they didn't go to strip club, they got strippers (this was the first and LAST time they did). now, i have to preface this with a note that i was shocked when he told me what happened b/c he & his friends are, with the exception of drinking too much once in a while, relatively stand-up citizens. strong morals & all that jazz. i mean, all of them are such good guys.

anyhow, he was telling me at the end of the nite he walks into bathroom to find groom-to-be with pants down and the two strippers, um, well, you can figure it out.

the WORST part is that anytime we hang out with them, i feel HORRIBLE that i know this about the girl's husband and she has not a clue. i won't even begin to tell you what i think of him...

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That's so wrong and disrespectful!!!

FH can have strippers and all that nonsense, but I trust that he will not do anything with those girls. I know he thinks they are trashy and dirty so I am not concerned...

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It makes me sad to hear this. My fh said that he would be insulted if his friends included strippers that touched him at all. He said he would be okay at a strip club but doesn't want to be touched at all.

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Ughhh just the thought is horrible!! I hope the guy felt like a piece of s**t in the morning.

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gross.

My fi went to a strip club for a bachelor party, and there was a shower room where they wait to each take one hand and soap up the girl. he said it was quite sad and funny at the same time. I thought it was yucky. at least she was clean!