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LFitzy79
booked!!!!!
Member since 11/04 1543 total posts
Wedding Date:
6/13/2009 6:30 PM
Wed. Location:
Hamlet Willow Creek
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Re: So I need a hug, or a giggle if anyone has something fun to share....(long)
Posted by palebride
That's terrible that he did this to you over email.....shows his immaturity and lack of compassion...
But, don't blame yourself for loving him - it shows what a good person you are for being able to see the good in people
I hope he gets a fungus too
let's all hope that little weeny gets a fungus. jerk
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Posted 7/11/05 4:21 PM 
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JanuaryBride06
boyfriend in my head
Member since 4/05 13019 total posts
Wedding Date:
1/8/2006 12:00 PM
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Re: So I need a hug, or a giggle if anyone has something fun to share....(long)
Posted by LFitzy79
let's all hope that little weeny gets a fungus. jerk
When I first read it I thought it said that you hoped that he gets a little weeny fugus...
I'm sorry that this has happened to you.
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Posted 7/11/05 4:23 PM
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nylibride
Home improvement expert now...
Member since 3/04 1095 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/16/2005 3:30 PM
Wed. Location:
Carlyle on the Green
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Re: So I need a hug, or a giggle if anyone has something fun to share....(long)
I'm so sorry. You deserve SO much more than an email!!!! You guys really do need to talk. If he does want a 6 month break...do NOT put YOUR life on hold for him.... So sorry you're feeling badly. Hope he gets that fungus you're hoping for....
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Posted 7/11/05 4:30 PM
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jenny2penny
Board Princess
Member since 1/03 11743 total posts
Wedding Date:
1/1/2012 7:00 PM
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Message edited 12/2/2005 12:38:27 PM.
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Posted 7/11/05 4:35 PM
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MonkeyLuv
It's An Obsession
Member since 8/04 4437 total posts
Wedding Date:
1/1/2012 12:00 AM
Wed. Location:
booked
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Re: So I need a hug, or a giggle if anyone has something fun to share....(long)
I think the best attitude to have right now (aside from seething anger and fungus-wishes!) is if he wants to leave, ask if he needs help packing. (or tell him not to let the door hit him in the @ss on the way out!)
You should decide what the "time apart means". Tell him "this is a break up." or "this is a pause for time to ourselves."
Whatever you do, tell him flat out what you expect from him over the 6 months. If it's fidelity and deep thought, or casually dating other people or whatever. BUT TELL HIM. And then stick to your guns.
In the meantime, here we are!
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Posted 7/11/05 4:38 PM
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BMD'sPeanut
Rock The Casbah!
Member since 10/03 8733 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/24/2004 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Westbury Manor
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Re: So I need a hug, or a giggle if anyone has something fun to share....(long)
Posted by JanuaryBride06
Posted by LFitzy79
let's all hope that little weeny gets a fungus. jerk
When I first read it I thought it said that you hoped that he gets a little weeny fugus...
Me too!
And Fitz, where's the wedding??? 
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Posted 7/11/05 4:51 PM
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HearzBellz
Always a bridesmaid 3x over
Member since 4/03 10389 total posts
Wedding Date:
1/9/2004 1:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Harbor Club
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Re: So I need a hug, or a giggle if anyone has something fun to share....(long)
hmm, that was pretty sh**y getting an e-mail, and then no return. Honestly, I would find out what is *really* going on. And why 6 months? Why does he have a time limit for this? I understand you not wanting to push him into getting back together, but I think you will go mad if he does not explain himself a little better. 
I think you should find a good friend that you know you can laugh & have a good time with at the wedding & go with him/her. I am sure you'd much rather be happy & carefree that day with someone fun.
What a weenie thing to do
I hope he gets a fungus and a wart.
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Posted 7/11/05 5:09 PM
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nov04LIbride
Asshatery: Nature or nurture?
Member since 3/04 8138 total posts
Wedding Date:
11/6/2004 11:00 AM
Wed. Location:
Hard-boiled eggs also have hearts of gold.
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Re: So I need a hug, or a giggle if anyone has something fun to share....(long)
Posted by MonkeyLuv
I think the best attitude to have right now (aside from seething anger and fungus-wishes!) is if he wants to leave, ask if he needs help packing. (or tell him not to let the door hit him in the @ss on the way out!)
You should decide what the "time apart means". Tell him "this is a break up." or "this is a pause for time to ourselves."
Whatever you do, tell him flat out what you expect from him over the 6 months. If it's fidelity and deep thought, or casually dating other people or whatever. BUT TELL HIM. And then stick to your guns.
In the meantime, here we are!
I agree! Fact is, you can't control what he does, but you do have control over how you react to it. Please know that you would NOT have wanted to be married to someone who was not 100% sure! There are too many divorces out there. Take this time for you, and figure out if HE was really what you wanted, or maybe seeing all those other weddings made you want a wedding of your own...
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Posted 7/11/05 5:24 PM
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Athee07
One year down a lifetime to go
Member since 5/05 7985 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/14/2007 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Swan Club
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Re: So I need a hug, or a giggle if anyone has something fun to share....(long)
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Posted 7/11/05 10:12 PM
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danigirl0
open the windows!
Member since 2/03 2673 total posts
Wedding Date:
2/6/2004 3:30 PM
Wed. Location:
long island
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Re: UPDATED: So I need a hug, or a giggle if anyone has something fun to share....(long)
yes, perfectly said. or else it becomes a huge mess and very confusing. good luck with everything.
Posted by MonkeyLuv
I think the best attitude to have right now (aside from seething anger and fungus-wishes!) is if he wants to leave, ask if he needs help packing. (or tell him not to let the door hit him in the @ss on the way out!)
You should decide what the "time apart means". Tell him "this is a break up." or "this is a pause for time to ourselves."
Whatever you do, tell him flat out what you expect from him over the 6 months. If it's fidelity and deep thought, or casually dating other people or whatever. BUT TELL HIM. And then stick to your guns.
In the meantime, here we are!
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Posted 7/12/05 3:08 PM
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Danielle
Oh my!!
Member since 10/03 1127 total posts
Wedding Date:
8/4/2006 3:00 PM
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Re: UPDATED: So I need a hug, or a giggle if anyone has something fun to share....(long)
I am so sorry. I canceled my wedding last year (yesterday would have been my one year anniversary) so if you want to talk, FM me!
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Posted 7/12/05 4:02 PM
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acre730
Board Fanatic
Member since 5/05 790 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/30/2005 12:00 AM
Wed. Location:
Milleridge Inn
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Re: UPDATED: So I need a hug, or a giggle if anyone has something fun to share....(long)
I am so sorry..... As someone else said you are better off having found out sooner rather than later..I'm sure it still hurts, but it will get better and you will be stronger as a result.
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Posted 7/12/05 4:06 PM
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LaurenluvsTJ
Married life is sweet!
Member since 1/05 11868 total posts
Wedding Date:
5/28/2006 12:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Westbury Manor
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Re: UPDATED: So I need a hug, or a giggle if anyone has something fun to share....(long)
Oh no, I am sorry!
How awful of him to do that to you in an email!
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Posted 7/12/05 4:09 PM
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Valentinegirl
*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*
Member since 7/03 7281 total posts
Wedding Date:
2/14/2004 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Westbury Manor-A+
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Re: UPDATED: So I need a hug, or a giggle if anyone has something fun to share....(long)
I really am SO sorry! 
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Posted 7/12/05 4:14 PM
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jes81276
"I'm Addicted"
Member since 3/05 1896 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/21/2006 4:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Hamlet at Willow Creek
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Re: UPDATED: So I need a hug, or a giggle if anyone has something fun to share....(long)
Oh my gosh, I am reading this and crying! I am so sorry - but boys have such a weird way of expressing (actually NOT expressing) themselves. I truly hope everything works out for you - just remember that everything really does happen for a reason. My FH and I broke up for a year after we first got together...so things have a crazy way of working out. Good luck and stay true to YOURSELF.
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Posted 7/12/05 4:22 PM
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beautyq115
Board Princess
Member since 12/04 16775 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/16/2006 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Swan Club...AMAZING
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Re: UPDATED: So I need a hug, or a giggle if anyone has something fun to share....(long)
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Posted 7/12/05 7:12 PM
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CalJoe0124
Best DH Ever!!
Member since 4/05 2308 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/28/2006 2:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Flowerfield!!!
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Re: UPDATED: So I need a hug, or a giggle if anyone has something fun to share....(long)
Hang in there, lots of hugs for you!
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Posted 7/12/05 7:19 PM
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lilmrs
I am a conundrum
Member since 5/02 12034 total posts
Wedding Date:
5/17/2003 12:30 PM
Wed. Location:
Under a rock
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Re: UPDATED: So I need a hug, or a giggle if anyone has something fun to share....(long)
more for you.
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Posted 7/12/05 7:39 PM
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MrsP2Be
Officially..Mrs P!
Member since 4/05 2301 total posts
Wedding Date:
9/10/2006 11:00 AM
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Watermill A+++++
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Re: UPDATED: So I need a hug, or a giggle if anyone has something fun to share....(long)
I dated a Todd and he dumped me...then I met my FH's 3 months later and his name is Todd. I don't know what it is about that name, but you may find another one.. and please don't hold it against him if he has the same name. 
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Posted 7/12/05 7:45 PM
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marymoon
Someday Bride
Member since 2/04 12229 total posts
Wedding Date:
12/31/2013 7:30 PM
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Re: UPDATED: So I need a hug, or a giggle if anyone has something fun to share....(long)
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Posted 7/12/05 7:47 PM
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sarahthegreat
sweet pea
Member since 11/03 6398 total posts
Wedding Date:
8/4/2006 12:00 AM
Wed. Location:
stewart manor country club
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Re: UPDATED: So I need a hug, or a giggle if anyone has something fun to share....(long)
that s u cks - i think email has got to be the lamest way to end a relationship, what a wuss.
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Posted 7/12/05 7:48 PM
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slwh2005
We're having a BABY!!
Member since 9/04 1913 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/8/2005 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Hamlet Wind Watch
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Re: UPDATED: So I need a hug, or a giggle if anyone has something fun to share....(long)
I'm sorry. I've been there. My ex of 7 years did the whole "break" thing. It was awful. He ended up being done with his "break" 9 months later, but I had moved on by then. His loss. It was so hard at the time, but now I am so glad because I met FH and he is so much better.
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Posted 7/12/05 8:22 PM
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tjs
ITS OCTOBER>>>HOLY S**T!
Member since 4/05 2972 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/14/2006 12:00 PM
Wed. Location:
The Protocol
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Re: UPDATED: So I need a hug, or a giggle if anyone has something fun to share....(long)
First I want to say im sorry I know first hand what you are going through and trust me it will get better!!! My ex we were together 7 yrs did the break thing and i was devistated but i was stupid and waited around hoping waiting for him to come back then one day i woke up and thought who the hell are you......and got on with my life it was the best thing that happened to me!!! Trust me i know you dont want to hear this but everything happens for a reason !! I am so happy with my FH and now see what it is to truly be loved and treated well! YOU DESERVE BETTER!!!! Good luck and i KNOW you will find true love and happiness---in the mean time you can always post pics of him on a men seeking men website!!! LOL
Message edited 7/12/2005 10:12:34 PM.
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Posted 7/12/05 10:11 PM
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JodiBabe
John's Lighthouse Lady
Member since 4/02 4280 total posts
Wedding Date:
9/13/2003 11:30 AM
Wed. Location:
Beach Club Estate, Ronkonkoma
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Re: UPDATED: So I need a hug, or a giggle if anyone has something fun to share....(long)
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Posted 7/12/05 11:57 PM
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Butterflybride
Loving my baby boy!!!
Member since 7/04 6745 total posts
Wedding Date:
1/15/2005 6:00 PM
Wed. Location:
The Swan Club (vow renewal-5/22/05)
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Posted 7/13/05 12:23 AM
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