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Mariec
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Wedding Date:
10/7/2006 7:00 PM

Wed. Location:
Flowerfields

How long to you have children?

I was just curious if any of you have had the discussion about children with your FH and how long after you married you will be having them? I have an itch right now cause Im at the age where it seams everyone around me is prego or getting prego! So as of Today I would love to get prego right away, but Im sure that will change.. how about you all?

Posted 6/24/05 11:59 AM
 

CalJoe0124
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Member since 4/05

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Wedding Date:
10/28/2006 2:00 PM

Wed. Location:
Flowerfield!!!

Re: How long to you have children?

Waiting 1-2 years, we want to travel and be selfish for a while

Posted 6/24/05 12:02 PM
 

ChrissynRicky
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Member since 2/05

14639 total posts

Wedding Date:
4/30/2006 3:00 PM

Wed. Location:
Fox Hollow - Woodbury, NY

Re: How long to you have children?

I'll only be 25 and the FH will be 30 when we get married, so we're waiting a few years (probably 2-3) before doing so. I'm at the peak of my career right now (Finance) and do not want to jeopardize it.

Posted 6/24/05 12:02 PM
 

MissingTheBGene
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Member since 6/05

4547 total posts

Wedding Date:
6/2/2006 3:00 PM

Wed. Location:
The Woodlands

Re: How long to you have children?


Posted by CalJoe0124

Waiting 1-2 years, we want to travel and be selfish for a while



Same here!

Posted 6/24/05 12:03 PM
 

PrincessConsuela
Almost there 2 yrs 2-3-08

Member since 7/04

2686 total posts

Wedding Date:
2/3/2006 7:30 PM

Wed. Location:
Fox Hollow

Re: How long to you have children?

at least 4-5 years we want to enjoy each other and also first to see if we can take care of puppies before we attempt kids. LOL

Posted 6/24/05 12:04 PM
 

SuzBride
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Member since 1/05

9762 total posts

Wedding Date:
7/8/2006 11:30 AM

Wed. Location:
Land's End :) 11!

Re: How long to you have children?

Waiting OVER 3 years FH will just have moved in together and really want time to be together and travel. I'll be 25 when I get married and plan to start 'thinking' about kids around 29/30.

Posted 6/24/05 12:04 PM
 

july06bride
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Member since 12/04

7794 total posts

Wedding Date:
7/1/2006 2:45 PM

Wed. Location:
East Wind Estate

Re: How long to you have children?

3-4 years after we are married

Posted 6/24/05 12:06 PM
 

kissy27
Sweet Memories

Member since 4/04

10934 total posts

Wedding Date:
3/31/2006 4:00 PM

Wed. Location:
Floral Terrace

Re: How long to you have children?

we will most likely be preg by the time we are married 2 years...We want to enjoy those years together plus we just bought a new house, so finances are going to be tight! We have an agreeance to have at least one by the time I am 30!

Posted 6/24/05 12:07 PM
 

shellnroc
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Member since 9/04

4961 total posts

Wedding Date:
6/9/2006 3:00 PM

Wed. Location:
Villa Lombardi's.... Beyond Amazing!

Re: How long to you have children?

I wanted to right away since I am getting older. FH wants to wait. We will see. If it happens it happens.

Posted 6/24/05 12:11 PM
 

Preshy7
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Member since 12/04

4958 total posts

Wedding Date:
4/22/2006 3:00 PM

Wed. Location:
Hamlet Willow Creek - PERFECTION

Re: How long to you have children?

5+ years

Posted 6/24/05 12:14 PM
 

MsKitty1274
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Member since 7/04

3544 total posts

Wedding Date:
6/25/2006 2:00 PM

Wed. Location:
Jericho Terrace

Re: How long to you have children?

We have discussed this. We want to start TTC shortly after the wedding. I will be 31 (and a half) when we get married and FH turns 28 right after the wedding, and we want 2-4 kids.

We agree we are ready, and figure it'll take a month or two (or three) to get preg, then 9 months for the baby!!

Posted 6/24/05 12:17 PM
 

cindyandkevin
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Member since 2/05

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Wedding Date:
6/10/2006 5:00 PM

Wed. Location:
Stonebridge Country Club

Re: How long to you have children?

Well FH will be turning 41 soon and he reminded me that he's not getting any younger. Plus, he already has an 8 y/o daughter from his 1st marriage. So I don't want to wait too long b4 we have kids, prob just a year.

Posted 6/24/05 12:17 PM
 

beautyq115
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Wedding Date:
7/16/2006 3:00 PM

Wed. Location:
Swan Club...AMAZING

Re: How long to you have children?

I want to wait atleast 1 year but no more than 2 or 3 since I will be 29 once I get married

Posted 6/24/05 12:17 PM
 

JessicaM.
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Member since 3/05

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Wedding Date:
4/23/2006 12:00 AM

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shes gonna dream up the world she wants to live in

Re: How long to you have children?

i will be approaching my 31st bday by the time we are married, and i hope to give birth by the time i am 33- so i guess about 2 years tops. i am only planning on having 1.

fh and i have been together 10 years and have already traveled A LOT, and I plan on dragging my bundle of joy all over the world from a young age....then kick them out to go to college at 18 and start with my husband all over again!!!

Posted 6/24/05 12:18 PM
 

LMFitz
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Member since 10/04

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Wedding Date:
5/5/2006 12:00 AM

Wed. Location:
Crescent Beach Club

Re: How long to you have children?

i'd love to do it right away - but we'll probably wait a year or so (if not two). If it happens sooner - than yeah for us!

Posted 6/24/05 12:24 PM
 

LaurenluvsTJ
Married life is sweet!

Member since 1/05

11868 total posts

Wedding Date:
5/28/2006 12:00 PM

Wed. Location:
Westbury Manor

Re: How long to you have children?

We will both be 28 when we get married and would like to have a baby when we are 30, so it will be about 2 years. We want some time to ourselves first.

Posted 6/24/05 12:34 PM
 

JanuaryBride06
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Wedding Date:
1/8/2006 12:00 PM

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Re: How long to you have children?

I'd like to put it off as long as possible. He wants one more than I do at this point.

Posted 6/24/05 12:51 PM
 

Pookiesangel
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Member since 2/04

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Wedding Date:
5/7/2006 3:30 PM

Wed. Location:
The Swan Club

Re: How long to you have children?

Well considering my age, we will probably be starting within the first year, since ideally I'd like to have two.

Posted 6/24/05 12:54 PM
 

06NovBride
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Member since 11/04

2981 total posts

Wedding Date:
11/24/2006 7:00 PM

Wed. Location:
East Wind

Re: How long to you have children?

I'm thinking about 2 years or so after we get married...I'll be 28 when we get married and he'll be 31 so I don't want to wait too long.

Posted 6/24/05 12:58 PM
 

Soon2BMrsJoeF
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Wedding Date:
9/15/2007 5:00 PM

Wed. Location:
The Palms Fantasy Tower - Celebrity Suite

Re: How long to you have children?

I already have one darlig little boy, I am waiting at least 2-3 more years before I have another one. He is enough to handle as it is and he is not even out of diapers yet.

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Posted 6/24/05 1:13 PM
 

hsacks23r
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Member since 1/05

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Wedding Date:
5/13/2006 6:00 PM

Wed. Location:
Three Village Inn

Re: How long to you have children?

We have a child 6yrd old girl (has a diff Father) but I want to have A BOY in 2008 and we will :)

Posted 6/24/05 1:16 PM
 

Jen2999
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Member since 11/04

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Wedding Date:
7/7/2006 4:00 PM

Wed. Location:
CHATEAU LA MER--AMAZING!

Re: How long to you have children?

I am going to wait till my tenure year to conceive and since I am switching schools.. it will be 2 years. Ill be 27 then.

Posted 6/24/05 1:16 PM
 

gNi1125
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Member since 1/05

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Wedding Date:
6/4/2006 1:30 PM

Wed. Location:
Russo's on The Bay

Re: How long to you have children?

At least 3 years

Posted 6/24/05 1:28 PM
 

Mariec
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Wedding Date:
10/7/2006 7:00 PM

Wed. Location:
Flowerfields

Re: How long to you have children?


Posted by domsmom52704

I already have one darlig little boy, I am waiting at least 2-3 more years before I have another one. He is enough to handle as it is and he is not even out of diapers yet.





He is adorable!!!

Posted 6/24/05 1:36 PM
 

Thumballina
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Member since 12/04

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Wedding Date:
11/24/2006 7:00 PM

Wed. Location:
Westbury Manor

Re: How long to you have children?

About 2.5-3 years...want to buy a home and enjoy it just the two of us for a bit...

Posted 6/24/05 1:38 PM
 
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