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AJsMommy122
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2/20/2005 12:00 AM

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SandCastle

When writing a TY card to a whole family...

The card was addressed from the Whole family ( 5 people) but 1 of those people could not make it to the wedding.

Do I mention in the card " Sorry Jane could not make it but I hope everyone else had a great time" or just ignore it??

Posted 6/8/05 4:08 PM
 

Donna
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4/25/2004 12:00 AM

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Re: When writing a TY card to a whole family...

I would ignore it. When that happened with me I just thanked for the generous gift and for sharing in our special day

Posted 6/8/05 4:16 PM
 

Stacey04
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Wedding Date:
11/27/2004 2:00 PM

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Leonards of Great Neck

Re: When writing a TY card to a whole family...

I think it depends on how close to the family you are.

ETA: If you are close to them you should say you missed whoever couldn't attend. If not, just a general thank you is fine

Message edited 6/8/2005 4:21:30 PM.

Posted 6/8/05 4:18 PM
 

glinda_goodwitch
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Wedding Date:
6/17/2006 5:30 PM

Wed. Location:
Jericho Terrace

Re: When writing a TY card to a whole family...

That's a tough one...Since it is from all 5, I would probably thank them all but not write anything about them attending. Instead, you can include all 5 people by thanking them for their love and support, or something like that. The fifth person that couldn't attend still sent his/her love and support even in their absense, so that would be appropriate. Does that make sense? Its like mentioning their "spiritual" presense rather than their physical presence at the wedding. (I'm not spiritual, but couldn't think of a better word). Hope that helps!

Posted 6/8/05 4:20 PM
 

cindyandkevin
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6/10/2006 5:00 PM

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Stonebridge Country Club

Re: When writing a TY card to a whole family...

You should FM marymoon, she's great at coming up with appropriate thank-yous for every situation!!

Posted 6/8/05 4:22 PM
 

AJsMommy122
Happily Ever After!

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Wedding Date:
2/20/2005 12:00 AM

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SandCastle

Re: When writing a TY card to a whole family...


Posted by cindyandkevin

You should FM marymoon, she's great at coming up with appropriate thank-yous for every situation!!



I know she REALLY IS!!

Posted 6/8/05 4:24 PM
 

marymoon
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Re: When writing a TY card to a whole family...


Posted by Soon2bMsZ


Posted by cindyandkevin

You should FM marymoon, she's great at coming up with appropriate thank-yous for every situation!!



I know she REALLY IS!!



I feel so loved!

This can go either way, but I think personally I would:

Dear Mr. and Mrs Sanders Jimmy, Billy and Jane.

We want to thank you from the bottom of our hearts for being there with us to enjoy our special day. Jane, we are sorry you couldn't come dance the night away with us, but we felt a lot of joy and warmth knowing you were with us in spirit! Thank you all ever so much for your most beautiful and generous gift. Those candlesticks will look fantastic on our mantle and will light the holidays for years to come.

Love, Us


HTH

Posted 6/8/05 4:44 PM
 

JimmysBride
Board Princess

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Wedding Date:
10/9/2004 12:00 AM

Wed. Location:
SandCastle

Re: When writing a TY card to a whole family...

You don't have to address it.

I think I did one like that but now I can't remember what I wrote!

Posted 6/8/05 4:49 PM
 

AtticaQT
Greek Jewel

Member since 5/03

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Wedding Date:
1/9/2005 2:00 PM

Wed. Location:
North Ritz Club A+

Re: When writing a TY card to a whole family...

Maxine when i start writing my Thank yous I am seriously going to do a search for all your questions!

Posted 6/8/05 5:03 PM
 
 

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