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invite help!how do i send out certain ones?

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lishbone
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invite help!how do i send out certain ones?

i have 2 friends getting married ...one is 20 days after mine..and the other one is in march..they are both in my wedding party and very close to me..now when i send their invites..how do i address it? 1 couple lives together the other one doesnt..but the one that doesnt is getting married 20 days after me..do i send it to her house? and should i write something like "soon to be mr and mrs?" is anyone else in this boat? im confused..i would like to address them with their soon to be combined names if possible..what is the right thing to do?

Posted 6/4/05 9:06 AM
 

AnniesSS
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6/12/2005 11:30 AM

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Beach Club Estate

Re: invite help!how do i send out certain ones?

I have 2 couples getting married right after me - I sent them to Mr David Smith and Miss Tamara Smith and Mr Scot Jones and Miss Stacey Jones. I believe that's the proper way.

Posted 6/4/05 9:10 AM
 

italia6973
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10/22/2005 2:30 PM

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Re: invite help!how do i send out certain ones?


Posted by AnniesSS

I have 2 couples getting married right after me - I sent them to Mr David Smith and Miss Tamara Smith and Mr Scot Jones and Miss Stacey Jones. I believe that's the proper way.



I have the same situation with a couple of friends and I am putting both of their names on there also.

Posted 6/4/05 9:40 AM
 

lishbone
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Re: invite help!how do i send out certain ones?


Posted by italia6973


Posted by AnniesSS

I have 2 couples getting married right after me - I sent them to Mr David Smith and Miss Tamara Smith and Mr Scot Jones and Miss Stacey Jones. I believe that's the proper way.



I have the same situation with a couple of friends and I am putting both of their names on there also.

wait..both of their soon to be names? im still confused..im sorry.im dumb.

Posted 6/4/05 9:45 AM
 

exotica776
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11/11/2005 7:00 PM

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Re: invite help!how do i send out certain ones?

i think the soon to be mr and mrs thing is really cute, and I would love to get it. however i have read in the past where certain brides would not like that because they arent necessarily changing their last name. if you know for sure they are taking on their hubby's last name then i would do The Future Mr. and Mrs. XXXXX.

Posted 6/4/05 11:12 AM
 

AJsMommy122
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2/20/2005 12:00 AM

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Re: invite help!how do i send out certain ones?


Posted by exotica776

i think the soon to be mr and mrs thing is really cute, and I would love to get it. however i have read in the past where certain brides would not like that because they arent necessarily changing their last name. if you know for sure they are taking on their hubby's last name then i would do The Future Mr. and Mrs. XXXXX.



I agree.

I know when we were engaged ( living together) all of our invitations came " Mr. and Mrs. Joe Z" and I LOVED it

Posted 6/4/05 11:15 AM
 

Goldi1021
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2/18/2006 7:00 PM

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Re: invite help!how do i send out certain ones?

JMO but I wouldnt use FH's name until it was legally mine. If you are inviting someone who isnt married yet, I would address the invitation to the person you are inviting at the time you send the invitation and not who they WILL be.

Posted 6/4/05 11:31 AM
 

EmberLynn
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Re: invite help!how do i send out certain ones?

One of my BMs and GM are engaged, but won't be married until after us. What I just did was put both their names on the card. It was like this

To Mr. Erik J Smith and Miss Jenna L Green. I"m also doing this for people I know who are kept their maiden name. Also when I do send an invite out to a married couple that share a last name, I address as Mr. John and Mrs Annie Young.

Posted 6/4/05 11:35 AM
 
 

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