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MrsNYPDsGirl
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Those who have had or are having a Catholic Church Ceremony
Anyone having (or did anyone have) a Catholic Church Ceremony? How long is the Ceremony only typically?!?!
What is excluded from the full mass (besides the Eucharist obviously)?
Thanks!!! 
Message edited 7/26/2005 10:16:15 PM.
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Donna
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Re: Catholic Church Ceremony
Everything is the same but Communion. We still had 2 readings, the gospel and homily.
eta: And the Prayer of the Faithful, our ceremony was about 40 minutes
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LMFitz
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Re: Catholic Church Ceremony
And no offertory procession - since there's no eucharist.
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Posted 5/26/05 8:33 AM
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Donna
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Re: Catholic Church Ceremony
Forgot to add too - once you go to Precana they give you the book that lists the entire ceremony and the readings you can choose from.
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Posted 5/26/05 8:41 AM
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jeanla4c
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Re: Catholic Church Ceremony
Here is the order from our program(with our songs/readings included):
Processional………………………Jesu, Joy of Man’s Desiring/Bach
Bridal Processional………………Trumpet Voluntary/Clarke
Opening Prayer
Old Testament Reading................. Sirach 26:1-4, 13-16
Read by…………………………
Psalm…………………………….Where There is Love/Haas
New Testament Reading………….1 Corinthians 12:31-13:8a
Read by…………………………
Alleluia
Gospel Reading…………………..Mark 10:6-9
Homily
Rite of Marriage
Exchange of vows
Blessing and exchange of rings
Candle lighting…………………..Arioso/Bach
Prayer of the Faithful
Nuptial Blessing
Final Blessing
Recessional………………………Rondeau/Mouret
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Posted 5/26/05 9:00 AM
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dpli
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Re: Catholic Church Ceremony
I believe the Liturgy of the Eucharistic and the Communion Rite are eliminated, which is pretty lengthy (the bulk of the mass after the creed and prayer of the faithful). Since the Our Father is smack in the middle of that, it probably is not said. This site might help:
http://myweb.lmu.edu/fjust/Mass.htm
I think if you really wanted to have the Lord's Prayer, you could ask the priest to lead the congregation is saying it before the concluding rite.
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Posted 5/26/05 11:15 AM
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Jamie&MarkSept.'05
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Re: Catholic Church Ceremony
Thanks for this helpful post!
You girls are awesome!
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Posted 5/26/05 12:39 PM
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MrsNYPDsGirl
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Re: Catholic Church Ceremony
Posted by jeanla4c
Here is the order from our program(with our songs/readings included):
Processional………………………Jesu, Joy of Man’s Desiring/Bach
Bridal Processional………………Trumpet Voluntary/Clarke
Opening Prayer
Old Testament Reading................. Sirach 26:1-4, 13-16
Read by…………………………
Psalm…………………………….Where There is Love/Haas
New Testament Reading………….1 Corinthians 12:31-13:8a
Read by…………………………
Alleluia
Gospel Reading…………………..Mark 10:6-9
Homily
Rite of Marriage
Exchange of vows
Blessing and exchange of rings
Candle lighting…………………..Arioso/Bach
Prayer of the Faithful
Nuptial Blessing
Final Blessing
Recessional………………………Rondeau/Mouret
Thanks so much for this!!!!! You girls ARE AWESOME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 
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Posted 5/26/05 10:14 PM
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MrsNYPDsGirl
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Re: Those who have had or are having a Catholic Church Ceremony
Bump! Anyone know how long the ceremony typically is???
Thanks in advance!!
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Posted 7/26/05 10:16 PM
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tjs
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Re: Those who have had or are having a Catholic Church Ceremony
our deacon told us about 40-45 minutes
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Posted 7/26/05 10:18 PM
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MrsNYPDsGirl
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Re: Those who have had or are having a Catholic Church Ceremony
Posted by tjs
our deacon told us about 40-45 minutes
Thanks for the info!
Anyone else???
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Posted 7/26/05 10:20 PM
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designerbride
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Re: Those who have had or are having a Catholic Church Ceremony
My priest said about an hour for us. Our wedding starts at 2:30 and confessions start at 3:30. I we were to have a mass it would have started at 2:00.
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Posted 7/26/05 10:41 PM
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MrsNYPDsGirl
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Re: Those who have had or are having a Catholic Church Ceremony
Posted by designerbride
My priest said about an hour for us. Our wedding starts at 2:30 and confessions start at 3:30. I we were to have a mass it would have started at 2:00.
Wow, an hour??? This worries me! My ceremony is at 5pm and CH starts at 6:30pm! 
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Posted 7/26/05 11:13 PM
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kris15198
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Re: Those who have had or are having a Catholic Church Ceremony
I believe it is about an hour, or an hour + if you are doing a receiving line at the church.
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Posted 7/26/05 11:43 PM
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designerbride
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Re: Those who have had or are having a Catholic Church Ceremony
Posted by kris15198
I believe it is about an hour, or an hour + if you are doing a receiving line at the church.
Definitely an hour +. Even after a receiving line, I am sure people will want to take pics in & outside the church too. Especially if the weather is nice. I have a feeling we will be at the church longer than an hour.
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Posted 7/27/05 12:28 AM
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jeanla4c
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Re: Those who have had or are having a Catholic Church Ceremony
We were at the church a little over an hour total with the ceremony (yes about 40-45 min), receiving line, and a few pictures outside.
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Posted 7/27/05 7:59 AM
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dpli
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Re: Those who have had or are having a Catholic Church Ceremony
Posted by NYPDsGirl
Posted by designerbride
My priest said about an hour for us. Our wedding starts at 2:30 and confessions start at 3:30. I we were to have a mass it would have started at 2:00.
Wow, an hour??? This worries me! My ceremony is at 5pm and CH starts at 6:30pm!
The ceremony itself might only be 30 minutes. It would be shorter if you weren't doing any special dedications, or a unity candle. We didn't have a receiving line b/c of concerns about getting photos during daylight savings time and that saved a LOT of time too. We just came down the aisle, went out the front door, walked around to the side door and waited inside the lobby of the side door until most of the people exited. We took 2 or 3 photos on the altar, and then walked down the steps outside. We knew we would see everyone at the reception, so that is where we greeted everyone.
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Posted 7/27/05 10:16 AM
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marymoon
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Re: Those who have had or are having a Catholic Church Ceremony
I've been to several ceremonies in the catholic church. They've been everywhere from 20-40 minutes, depending on how much the priest spoke, etc. The unity canle, flowers for mothers, they really don't take THAT long, maybe a few minutes. The priest or deacon was the one who really seemed to set the pace at the ceremonies I've been to
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Posted 7/27/05 10:19 AM
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Lauram283
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Re: Those who have had or are having a Catholic Church Ceremony
about 40 mins. (we are only having a ceremony) full mass would include communion.
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Posted 7/27/05 12:32 PM
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SomethingBlu
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Re: Those who have had or are having a Catholic Church Ceremony
Posted by NYPDsGirl
Posted by tjs
our deacon told us about 40-45 minutes
Thanks for the info!
Anyone else???
Our ceremony only, no mass, was about 35-40 minutes. But the Monsignor made it that long by adding personal anecdotes about my DH and I. Normally, I would say between 30-35 minutes.
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Posted 7/27/05 12:35 PM
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Kim51103
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Re: Those who have had or are having a Catholic Church Ceremony
A full mass....1 hour
just a ceremony...about 40 min
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Posted 7/27/05 12:37 PM
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MrsNYPDsGirl
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Re: Those who have had or are having a Catholic Church Ceremony
30-35 minutes would be PERFECT!!!! I think I am going to cut out all of the dedications, unity candle, etc. That should help a bit!!!
Thanks so much for all of your responses!!!
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Posted 7/27/05 1:03 PM
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cloddy
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Re: Those who have had or are having a Catholic Church Ceremony
Posted by dpli
I believe the Liturgy of the Eucharistic and the Communion Rite are eliminated, which is pretty lengthy (the bulk of the mass after the creed and prayer of the faithful). Since the Our Father is smack in the middle of that, it probably is not said. This site might help:
http://myweb.lmu.edu/fjust/Mass.htm
I think if you really wanted to have the Lord's Prayer, you could ask the priest to lead the congregation is saying it before the concluding rite.
Really only communion and offering are left out. We still had Lord's Prayer
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Posted 7/27/05 1:16 PM
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IrishBride-05
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Re: Those who have had or are having a Catholic Church Ceremony
Posted by cloddy
Posted by dpli
I believe the Liturgy of the Eucharistic and the Communion Rite are eliminated, which is pretty lengthy (the bulk of the mass after the creed and prayer of the faithful). Since the Our Father is smack in the middle of that, it probably is not said. This site might help:
http://myweb.lmu.edu/fjust/Mass.htm
I think if you really wanted to have the Lord's Prayer, you could ask the priest to lead the congregation is saying it before the concluding rite.
Really only communion and offering are left out. We still had Lord's Prayer
We're also having communion at our ceremony, so only the offertory procession and consecration are left out
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Posted 7/27/05 1:43 PM
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DMcK
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Re: Those who have had or are having a Catholic Church Ceremony
Ours was a mass and took just over an hour
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