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piyopika
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Member since 3/05 570 total posts
Wedding Date:
8/6/2006 12:00 AM
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Fox Hollow
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A weird question I gotta ask...
I am thinking about looking for a new job, not sure when will happen, but it should happen before the wedding....
now.. my very weird question is.. I have a few people from work now that I would like to invite... I want to send out my STDs now... but if so happens I get a new job later on... Should I still invite these people from work to the wedding? It might be weird, considering two of the people I want to invite are my managers, and if I do happen to have a new job, I am not sure if they would be bitter about me leaving..... so should I even send them a STD now? I want to leave myself some wiggle room if later on I am no long at this job and I might not feel comfortable inviting them anymore.
Sorry if I sound confusing, I feel like I am just rambling on.... 
Message edited 5/21/2005 10:02:07 AM.
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Posted 5/21/05 10:01 AM 
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Miro127
"I'm Addicted"
Member since 7/02 1460 total posts
Wedding Date:
8/2/2003 2:30 PM
Wed. Location:
North Ritz Club
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Re: A weird question I gotta ask...
i wouldn't send them an STD.
just don't tell them you're sending them out and you can always still invite them if you don't change jobs!
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Posted 5/21/05 10:03 AM
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suven
Sunny skies on my wedding day!
Member since 8/03 5968 total posts
Wedding Date:
5/30/2004 2:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Leonard's of Great Neck: A
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Re: A weird question I gotta ask...
Don't send STD's to coworkers. You never know what may happen. What if you stay, but one of your managers leaves?
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Posted 5/21/05 10:03 AM
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Mrs. dleeny
My most beautiful day ever
Member since 3/05 12395 total posts
Wedding Date:
11/6/2005 5:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Swan Club A+
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Re: A weird question I gotta ask...
IMO, don't send the STD's to anyone unless you're 100% sure you're inviting them.
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Posted 5/21/05 10:03 AM
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katieshope
I'm MARRIED!!!
Member since 1/05 1215 total posts
Wedding Date:
8/6/2005 11:30 AM
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Re: A weird question I gotta ask...
I was in the same situation, I just didn't send my co-workers a STD. But now my problem is, I got a new job (teaching in a different county) So I decided I am not going to invite them, but my invites go out at the end of this month!! And I still work until June 13th!! I know most likely I'll never see these people again but its so hard not to talk about wedding stuff at work!!
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Posted 5/21/05 10:07 AM
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Backinneyork
Call Me Mrs. R!
Member since 6/04 3986 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/1/2005 3:00 PM
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The Bourne Mansion - A+
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Re: A weird question I gotta ask...
Posted by dleeny
IMO, don't send the STD's to anyone unless you're 100% sure you're inviting them.
Ditto! I a couple to some people I changed my mind about, but now I have to invite them!
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Posted 5/21/05 10:12 AM
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WedHead
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Wedding Date:
10/28/2005 12:00 AM
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Re: A weird question I gotta ask...
I agree - don't send them STDs. I sent STDs because I was excited and they were cute, but in retrospect, I now realize FH doesn't stay in touch with some of the "friends" he had me send the STDs to. My only hope is, that since they've lost touch, they may not accept the invitation.
Message edited 5/21/2005 11:15:26 AM.
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Posted 5/21/05 11:14 AM
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cjik
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Wedding Date:
7/16/2005 12:30 PM
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Re: A weird question I gotta ask...
Unless you are friends with them, I wouldn't send an STD. You can always invite them later on if they are not bitter about you leaving, and you still want them to attend.
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Posted 5/21/05 11:27 AM
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pschica
Home Remodeling Queen-in-Trng
Member since 3/03 5771 total posts
Wedding Date:
11/16/2003 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Jericho Terrace
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Re: A weird question I gotta ask...
i would skip sending any "maybe" people an std...they'll never know!
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Posted 5/21/05 11:59 AM
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nferrandi
We did it!
Member since 12/03 5367 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/9/2004 6:30 PM
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The Crescent
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Re: A weird question I gotta ask...
Don't worry about sending them an STD, especially since it's not like your wedding is on a holiday weekend and none of them would need to worry about making travel arrangements.
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Posted 5/21/05 2:55 PM
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DottieMcHugh
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Member since 3/05 306 total posts
Wedding Date:
2/12/2005 5:30 PM
Wed. Location:
The Meadow Club
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Re: A weird question I gotta ask...
I wouldnt send it. I had this happen to me. I left my old job 4 months before my wedding. I never made STD's so I didn't have to worry about that. I invited 3 people from my old job only because I developed a somewhat personal relationship with 2 of them, and 1 has since become my friend.
If you are hesitant I wouldn'y do it. You can always invite them later on. This way you don't feel obligated to.
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Posted 5/21/05 4:12 PM
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conigs25
We're going to Paris!!!
Member since 4/05 4852 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/14/2006 7:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Milleridge Cottage
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Re: A weird question I gotta ask...
Hold off on sending work people STDs. Youll get yourself caught in a situation that you might not wanna be in later. Thats what Im doing
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Posted 5/21/05 5:30 PM
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06NovBride
We're Married
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Wedding Date:
11/24/2006 7:00 PM
Wed. Location:
East Wind
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Re: A weird question I gotta ask...
I wouldn't send them out to coworkers. Who knows what will happen between now and then. If you are still there or still friendly when you are sending out your invitations then decide if you are going to invite them.
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Posted 5/21/05 5:39 PM
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piyopika
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Member since 3/05 570 total posts
Wedding Date:
8/6/2006 12:00 AM
Wed. Location:
Fox Hollow
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Re: A weird question I gotta ask...
The reason why I was so concerned is because I really would like my managers at my wedding, I have a great relationship with them now, but who knows how they would feel IF I decide to leave and I don't want any awkwardness at the wedding.
Will hold off the STDs for work people. Thanks for the advice!! 
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Posted 5/21/05 7:49 PM
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jensun
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Member since 10/03 483 total posts
Wedding Date:
5/27/2005 12:00 AM
Wed. Location:
The Inn at Eastwind, Southampton Ballroom
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Re: A weird question I gotta ask...
I wouldn't send them an STD
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