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glinda_goodwitch
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6/17/2006 5:30 PM

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Jericho Terrace

Are you girls helping FH pick out his tux?

My FH thinks it's a bit of a double standard that the bride gets to pick out her dress without any of the groom's say, AND that she also gets a say in what the groom wears. So are you girls helping your guy pick his tux? I think most guys need our guidance in this matter of fashion. How about GM...are you helping to pick what they wear, or are you leaving all that up to FH?

Edited for grammar mistakes!!

Message edited 5/17/2005 8:23:31 PM.

Posted 5/17/05 8:22 PM
 

STIX1130
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7/1/2005 7:00 PM

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Re: Are you girls helping FH pick out his tux?

im definitely helping him. i need to make sure everything looks ok!!! lol

Posted 5/17/05 8:23 PM
 

littlebookworm4
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11/18/2005 7:00 PM

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Thatched Cottage

Re: Are you girls helping FH pick out his tux?

we're going together - he doesn't want to go on his own anyway

Posted 5/17/05 8:23 PM
 

buggiegirl
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9/2/2006 11:00 AM

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The Thayer Hotel @ West Point

Re: Are you girls helping FH pick out his tux?

fh's sister works for a VERY high end designer of men's clothing- she is a fashionista so she will dress him.

(but i will have input

Posted 5/17/05 8:24 PM
 

dukey
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7/29/2005 6:30 PM

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Woodbury CC

Re: Are you girls helping FH pick out his tux?

I did!!!

Posted 5/17/05 8:25 PM
 

STUF04
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Wedding Date:
5/28/2006 6:30 PM

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JERICHO TERRACE

Re: Are you girls helping FH pick out his tux?

I am, I dont trust his taste.

Posted 5/17/05 8:29 PM
 

N.Y.bride
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7/28/2005 11:30 AM

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Chateau La Mer A++++++

Re: Are you girls helping FH pick out his tux?

hed rather me help him

Posted 5/17/05 8:30 PM
 

marc_rai
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Wedding Date:
7/3/2005 4:00 PM

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Crest Hollow

Re: Are you girls helping FH pick out his tux?

No. FH wants to surprise me. He has good taste so I'm not worried. I told him to get an ivory suit though.

Posted 5/17/05 8:32 PM
 

adioguardi
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Wedding Date:
9/16/2005 6:30 PM

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Ariana Waterfall

Re: Are you girls helping FH pick out his tux?

Not only did I go with him to pick it out - I paid for it!! (He chose to buy his tux instead of renting one)

Posted 5/17/05 8:47 PM
 

cindyandkevin
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6/10/2006 5:00 PM

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Stonebridge Country Club

Re: Are you girls helping FH pick out his tux?

I trust my FI to pick out his own tux and the GM as well. Altho I do like him to keep me informed just bc I'm a control freak about this wedding! I can understand your FI's feelings, I think I would kinda feel the same way if roles were reversed!!

Posted 5/17/05 9:00 PM
 

curliegirl
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10/29/2005 5:00 PM

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don't bother, they are awful people!!!!

Re: Are you girls helping FH pick out his tux?

We were supposed to go tonight, but now it's next week. You need to go to make sure his tux matches your dress!!!

Mine is ivory, so if he wore a white vest, it wouldn't go....men need our help.


It's just that simple.

Posted 5/17/05 9:58 PM
 

edsprincess
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10/2/2005 12:30 PM

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Re: Are you girls helping FH pick out his tux?


Posted by littlebookworm4

we're going together - he doesn't want to go on his own anyway



mine niether. i want to go so they all match the bm.

Posted 5/17/05 10:00 PM
 

shellnroc
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6/9/2006 3:00 PM

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Re: Are you girls helping FH pick out his tux?

I am DEFINITELY helping my FH pick out his tux and the groomsmen. I'm sorry men need a woman's help!!!!!! lol

Posted 5/17/05 10:02 PM
 

Goldi1021
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2/18/2006 7:00 PM

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Temple Avodah

Re: Are you girls helping FH pick out his tux?

I am helping. If it were left up to him he would have the men's vests matching the ladies dresses and to me that looks a little too prom-ish. Not my taste at all.

Posted 5/17/05 10:04 PM
 

MsKitty1274
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Wedding Date:
6/25/2006 2:00 PM

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Jericho Terrace

Re: Are you girls helping FH pick out his tux?

I will definatley be there. Mostly b/c he says he's going to get a purple tux w/ pink elephants. And when I try to laugh it off, like it's a joke he says "You laugh, but I'm serious"

Posted 5/17/05 10:14 PM
 

AJsMommy122
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Wedding Date:
2/20/2005 12:00 AM

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SandCastle

Re: Are you girls helping FH pick out his tux?

I picked out everything except the shoes
Same for the best man, dads, and groomsmen

Im a LITTLE bit of a control freak

Posted 5/17/05 10:14 PM
 

Mrs. dleeny
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11/6/2005 5:00 PM

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Swan Club A+

Re: Are you girls helping FH pick out his tux?


Posted by glinda_goodwitch

My FH thinks it's a bit of a double standard that the bride gets to pick out her dress without any of the groom's say, AND that she also gets a say in what the groom wears. So are you girls helping your guy pick his tux? I think most guys need our guidance in this matter of fashion. How about GM...are you helping to pick what they wear, or are you leaving all that up to FH?

Edited for grammar mistakes!!



well you tell him that it's unfair that we have to go through labor, be expected to cook, clean and then work just as hard as they do and make less money

kidding!

but seriously though, we're the one's with fashion sense! My FH is wearing a black suit and I was there to voice my opinion when he bought it

Posted 5/17/05 10:14 PM
 

DottieMcHugh
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2/12/2005 5:30 PM

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The Meadow Club

Re: Are you girls helping FH pick out his tux?

I just told DH what I liked and he agreed and got it. He is a pretty easy going guy tho in that respect..

Posted 5/17/05 10:18 PM
 

iffer042373
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Wedding Date:
9/15/2006 12:00 AM

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Manor East

Re: Are you girls helping FH pick out his tux?

I am going with my FH to get his tux and once I get my BM's dresses Iwill go and pick out the GM tuxes as well. I know I am going to have a problem with them cuz they don't want the bow tie or the tie I told my FH they have to have one and I think the neck tie would be better cuz they can take it off later on plus I like the tie better

Posted 5/17/05 10:25 PM
 

BriBri529
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Wedding Date:
7/10/2005 3:00 PM

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Villa Lombardi's

Re: Are you girls helping FH pick out his tux?

Yes I helped a little

Posted 5/17/05 10:30 PM
 

marc_rai
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Wedding Date:
7/3/2005 4:00 PM

Wed. Location:
Crest Hollow

Re: Are you girls helping FH pick out his tux?

Well, I do agree that we have to pick out the vests if you are not going with a white, black or ivory one. FH and I originally decided on black vests for the guys, and he came home telling me he selected a different one. Okay, so I asked him to show me the color. WHY did he pick out SAGE green vests?? The BM dresses are turquoise!! So now I have to go change them back to black. His excuse, Oh that was the color I remembered!

Posted 5/17/05 10:31 PM
 

yem3310
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9/25/2005 12:00 PM

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Westbury Manor

Re: Are you girls helping FH pick out his tux?

I am definitly going!!
i am sure i will pick it out , ive been shopping with him and its not a pretty site.

Posted 5/17/05 10:34 PM
 

LO13LO13
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Wedding Date:
8/13/2005 7:00 PM

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North Ritz Club

Re: Are you girls helping FH pick out his tux?

i went with him, but i let him choose, luckily he has good taste!!!

Posted 5/17/05 11:14 PM
 

wood2be
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10/10/2004 3:00 PM

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Montauk Yacht Club - FM me for details

Re: Are you girls helping FH pick out his tux?

We had huge fights over this. Not only did he think he should pick it out himself, but he actually said to me "I didn't tell you when the girls should get measured why should you tell me when the guys should". Mind you this was 6 weeks before the wedding! We did end up picking out the style together. However, he put it off so long that there was no time left and I had to go order them all myself.

Posted 5/17/05 11:33 PM
 

glinda_goodwitch
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Wedding Date:
6/17/2006 5:30 PM

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Jericho Terrace

Re: Are you girls helping FH pick out his tux?

Oh, I'm going with him. He doesn't actually mind...he just thought it was funny that the girl gets to pick the dress AND the tux. Just wanted to see what you girls were doing.

Posted 5/17/05 11:34 PM
 
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