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RedHead
6 people and counting :*
Member since 10/03 18761 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/2/2004 12:00 AM
Wed. Location:
Fox Hollow :)
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Love at First Sight
a reality or a delusion?
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Posted 5/4/05 12:36 PM 
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Jan05Bride
Is that a leg?
Member since 9/03 7117 total posts
Wedding Date:
1/7/2005 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Westbury Manor
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Re: Love at First Sight
delusion. REAL love is developed over time. 
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Posted 5/4/05 12:37 PM
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RedHead
6 people and counting :*
Member since 10/03 18761 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/2/2004 12:00 AM
Wed. Location:
Fox Hollow :)
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Re: Love at First Sight
Posted by Jan05Bride
delusion. REAL love is developed over time.
i agree
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Posted 5/4/05 12:38 PM
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HearzBellz
Always a bridesmaid 3x over
Member since 4/03 10389 total posts
Wedding Date:
1/9/2004 1:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Harbor Club
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Re: Love at First Sight
Lust/interest at first sight...if you are lucky it develops into Love
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Posted 5/4/05 12:39 PM
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Soon2BMrsJoeF
Board Fanatic
Member since 8/04 744 total posts
Wedding Date:
9/15/2007 5:00 PM
Wed. Location:
The Palms Fantasy Tower - Celebrity Suite
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Re: Love at First Sight
More like Lust and first sight - Love comes later on...i think
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Posted 5/4/05 12:39 PM
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heidla
Anyone care for a spot of tea?
Member since 10/02 5901 total posts
Wedding Date:
5/28/2004 7:00 PM
Wed. Location:
The Snuff Mill at the NYBG
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Re: Love at First Sight
I think it is more like Lust at first sight.
Love is about more then attraction.
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Posted 5/4/05 12:39 PM
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sarahthegreat
sweet pea
Member since 11/03 6398 total posts
Wedding Date:
8/4/2006 12:00 AM
Wed. Location:
stewart manor country club
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Re: Love at First Sight
i was in love with fh at first site, but it took him some time to come around
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Posted 5/4/05 12:39 PM
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Butterflybride
Loving my baby boy!!!
Member since 7/04 6745 total posts
Wedding Date:
1/15/2005 6:00 PM
Wed. Location:
The Swan Club (vow renewal-5/22/05)
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Re: Love at First Sight
Tough call. I think it depends on the person that experiences the feeling. If it's somebody that's desperate to find somebody, it may be delusional, because they want to find the right person so badly. If it's somebody that's not really looking, or is looking, but isn't desperate, I think it can be a reality. I experienced love at first sight with my DH. I was with another guy at the time, so natually I wasn't even looking and then I made eye contact with DH and the feeling I had was overwhelming. I believe that it can be a reality depending on the person that feels it.
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Posted 5/4/05 12:40 PM
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diamondgrlie
Board Princess
Member since 2/04 10473 total posts
Wedding Date:
6/3/2005 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Woodbury Country Club - A+
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Re: Love at First Sight
It hasnt ever happened to me personally but it could be a possibility for people who are really into touch with their subconscious or something.
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Posted 5/4/05 12:45 PM
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Valentinegirl
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Member since 7/03 7281 total posts
Wedding Date:
2/14/2004 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Westbury Manor-A+
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Re: Love at First Sight
I think delusional.
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Posted 5/4/05 12:46 PM
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computergirl
Board Enthusiast
Member since 3/05 105 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/5/2002 12:00 AM
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Re: Love at First Sight
DH and I always like to say it was "love at first sight" (hey, we got engaged after 3 months of dating!) But the truth is, I think we were in love at first sight with the IDEA of each other. You kow, the idealized image you have of the other person at the beginning. How could we have really known if it was love? We were just really, really lucky that as the months turned into years and we got to know the "reality" of each other, we loved that just as much.
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Posted 5/4/05 12:47 PM
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FeliciaDA
I'm a Mommy!
Member since 12/03 11599 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/25/2004 1:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Thatched Cottage A+
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Re: Love at First Sight
Posted by HearzBellz
Lust/interest at first sight...if you are lucky it develops into Love
agreed
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Posted 5/4/05 12:59 PM
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july06bride
Happy First Anniversary to Us!
Member since 12/04 7796 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/1/2006 2:45 PM
Wed. Location:
East Wind Estate
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Re: Love at First Sight
Posted by FeliciaDA
Posted by HearzBellz
Lust/interest at first sight...if you are lucky it develops into Love
agreed
Absolutely agree
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Posted 5/4/05 1:07 PM
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Dom n Nic
It's An Obsession
Member since 10/04 3593 total posts
Wedding Date:
8/30/2012 12:00 AM
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Re: Love at First Sight
Posted by Jan05Bride
delusion. REAL love is developed over time.
true true
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Posted 5/4/05 1:47 PM
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prncssrachel
One happy family!
Member since 2/03 11213 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/3/2005 3:30 PM
Wed. Location:
The Bourne Mansion
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Re: Love at First Sight
Posted by Dom n Nic
Posted by Jan05Bride
delusion. REAL love is developed over time.
true true
YES. But I trusted my instincts when I met JT. I just knew that he was going to be the one, but it sure as hell wasn't LOVE. Just intuition
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Posted 5/4/05 1:58 PM
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xjulietx
It's A Sickness!
Member since 4/03 6637 total posts
Wedding Date:
6/20/2004 3:30 PM
Wed. Location:
Westbury Manor
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Re: Love at First Sight
I don't believe in love at first sight. I think love comes a while after meeting someone. I think you need to know a person to really love them. You can like or lust them but love is special.
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Posted 5/4/05 2:08 PM
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jozieb0925
Can't wait for vaca!!!!!!
Member since 7/04 3418 total posts
Wedding Date:
11/10/2010 12:00 AM
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Re: Love at First Sight
unfortunately delusional...
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Posted 5/4/05 2:11 PM
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MCDO15
You got Served!
Member since 1/04 4741 total posts
Wedding Date:
3/13/2005 5:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Giorgio's at Fox Hill
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Re: Love at First Sight
reailty
DW said she was getting married onn DAY 2 !!! 
i didnt believe her till day 1456 (4 years) or so...
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Posted 5/4/05 3:04 PM
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bxgell2
Baby Beer is on the way!
Member since 2/04 1048 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/31/2004 12:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Southampton Inn
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Re: Love at First Sight
I don't necessarily think it's "love" at first sight, but maybe intuition? I never believed in that stuff, until I had my first date with DH. I opened the door, walked into the coffee shop, took one look at him, and just "knew"... according to Dh, it was the same for him. I was the kind of person who always, ALWAYS said I would never get married. Yet, after our second date, I told all of my closest friends I would marry him, and one year later, I did. Was it LOVE at first sight? I can't say, but it was definitely something...
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Posted 5/4/05 3:08 PM
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marymoon
Someday Bride
Member since 2/04 12229 total posts
Wedding Date:
12/31/2013 7:30 PM
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Re: Love at First Sight
I think it depends. Love can mean SO many things. When I was 15 I was in LOVE with my bf. I really did love him. Does it even come close to how I love my FH? of course not, but for me, at the time it was love.
So maybe you can have love at first sight, but it's a different kind of love than what develops over time. I think we need more words for love because it can mean SO many things.
FH says he loved me at first sight. I don't even remember meeting him the time he said he saw me on the escalator at school and KNEW. We didn't date until SO long after that and I had no interest in him until I really got to know him. I've experienced love in various capacities several times, but never love at first sight... my experience tells me, no, love comes with time..but..I don't know there are so many different kids, levels and aspects of love, who knows?
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Posted 5/4/05 3:10 PM
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dm24angel
Take a full moon and add Wine!
Member since 2/04 8534 total posts
Wedding Date:
3/11/2005 5:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Water Mill
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Re: Love at First Sight
does not happen...not LOVE....you cannot in my own definition of love look at someone and love them. Thats crazy to me. ( JMO)
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Posted 5/4/05 6:35 PM
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lolita4life
me and my loves
Member since 9/04 5543 total posts
Wedding Date:
3/1/2005 4:30 PM
Wed. Location:
Las Vegas
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Re: Love at First Sight
i dont believe you can literally fall in love with someone at first sight, BUT i do believe you can have some sort of a magical connection and KNOW you will eventually be with this person.
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Posted 5/4/05 7:46 PM
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Jax430
Beyond Obsession
Member since 3/03 7661 total posts
Wedding Date:
6/27/2004 6:00 PM
Wed. Location:
East Meadow Jewish Center
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Re: Love at First Sight
Posted by july06bride
Posted by FeliciaDA
Posted by HearzBellz
Lust/interest at first sight...if you are lucky it develops into Love
agreed
Absolutely agree
Ditto
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Posted 5/4/05 7:47 PM
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LaurenluvsTJ
Married life is sweet!
Member since 1/05 11868 total posts
Wedding Date:
5/28/2006 12:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Westbury Manor
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Re: Love at First Sight
Well, I think it depends on the situation. I believe a real, deep, connection has to develop over time. However: I met FH online, and we talked and emailed eachother for two months before we ever saw each other. We never posted a pic, or anything. When we finally met for the first time, I knew it was him without a doubt, and I knew I was in love. He says it was exactly the same for him. The love that has developed since then has grown much deeper, but it was definitely there at first sight.
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Posted 5/4/05 8:47 PM
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JimmysBride
Board Princess
Member since 7/03 10135 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/9/2004 12:00 AM
Wed. Location:
SandCastle
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Re: Love at First Sight
Posted by HearzBellz
Lust/interest at first sight...if you are lucky it develops into Love
Exactly. 
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Posted 5/4/05 8:53 PM
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