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19 days left...BM has no bra, no shoes and no fitting!

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melissaandsean
bestdayever

Member since 2/04

2228 total posts

Wedding Date:
5/20/2005 7:00 PM

Wed. Location:
Beach Club Estate, Ronkonkoma - A+

19 days left...BM has no bra, no shoes and no fitting!

And I'm trying not to flip out...but it's hard. We talked last Sunday and she said she was going this week (the one that just passed) to get it all done. I called today to confirm and she PROMISES that it will be this week instead.

I've asked her like 20 times if she needs money, needs help, doesn't want to do it, or anything else and she assures me that she's taking care of it and that I shouldn't worry.

I'm so far beyond worried. And the more I think about it, the more I get myself sick inside.

I will not worry about this. I will not worry about this. I will not worry about this. I will not worry about this.

I have my dress and that's all that matters, right? hehehe

Posted 5/1/05 2:49 PM
 

steelersforlife
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Member since 3/05

125 total posts

Wedding Date:
11/5/2005 6:00 PM

Wed. Location:
Woodbury Country Club

Re: 19 days left...BM has no bra, no shoes and no fitting!

I don't understand people sometimes. Why agree to be in someone's wedding and then cause them grief!! Don't worry about it. All will be fine. In the end I am sure that she doesn't want to be in your wedding and looking crazy. She will get it together.

Posted 5/1/05 3:16 PM
 

neeniebean86
live. love. laugh.

Member since 8/04

6576 total posts

Wedding Date:
2/19/2005 11:00 AM

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Re: 19 days left...BM has no bra, no shoes and no fitting!

i know its hard, but dont stress it! one of my BMs had her fittin 2 weeks before. BM alterations arent as intricate, and as far as the shoes and bra, she can get that done in one day and go for the fitting the next day

(but then again, i also didnt go for my fitting until a little over 3 weeks before my wedding)

it will all work out

Posted 5/1/05 3:26 PM
 

melissaandsean
bestdayever

Member since 2/04

2228 total posts

Wedding Date:
5/20/2005 7:00 PM

Wed. Location:
Beach Club Estate, Ronkonkoma - A+

Re: 19 days left...BM has no bra, no shoes and no fitting!

thank you :)

I'm concerned about the bra because she's a 42EE or something. She's not really sure. She's going to mary's corsetieres and hopefully they will have something for her.

I'm trying hard not to stress about it.

Posted 5/1/05 3:33 PM
 

David'sbride
Soon to be Mom of Twins!!!!

Member since 7/04

3412 total posts

Wedding Date:
7/4/2005 11:00 AM

Wed. Location:
Watermill

Re: 19 days left...BM has no bra, no shoes and no fitting!

Give me her name, address and phone number and I'll kick her 42EE @ZZ for you

I can understand your stress. I would imagine that a 42EE bra isn't the easiest to find... but then again, I said I had to imagine...

Has she ever been a BM before?

Posted 5/1/05 3:45 PM
 

traceyd
2 yrs!!!!!!!!

Member since 11/04

2180 total posts

Wedding Date:
11/4/2005 3:00 PM

Wed. Location:
Estate at East Wind

Re: 19 days left...BM has no bra, no shoes and no fitting!

I don't know where your BM lives but if she can't find a bra at Marys she could also try Blum's in Patchogue

Posted 5/1/05 3:49 PM
 

lilacwine
In-between days

Member since 9/04

1471 total posts

Wedding Date:
5/14/2005 12:00 AM

Wed. Location:
booked

Re: 19 days left...BM has no bra, no shoes and no fitting!

she's got six days longer than my most delinquent BM. I try not to ask.

Posted 5/1/05 3:54 PM
 

melissaandsean
bestdayever

Member since 2/04

2228 total posts

Wedding Date:
5/20/2005 7:00 PM

Wed. Location:
Beach Club Estate, Ronkonkoma - A+

Re: 19 days left...BM has no bra, no shoes and no fitting!


Posted by lilacwine

she's got six days longer than my most delinquent BM. I try not to ask.




I feel a little better now, but a little worse for you


Posted 5/1/05 4:52 PM
 

ckgmwedding
Baby Grace is 1 year old!

Member since 6/04

4818 total posts

Wedding Date:
7/16/2005 3:00 PM

Wed. Location:
Merchant Marine Academy- Melville Hall A++++++++++

Re: 19 days left...BM has no bra, no shoes and no fitting!

DO NOT WORRY! I was a BM from out of town for two weddings and had my alterations done two days before each wedding and it was fine. Do not stress!

Posted 5/1/05 7:16 PM
 

ssbride05
Finally reached 1,000!!!!!!

Member since 12/04

1492 total posts

Wedding Date:
10/9/2005 3:00 PM

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Re: 19 days left...BM has no bra, no shoes and no fitting!

ohhh sorry to hear that.. try not to worry!!!!

Posted 5/1/05 9:27 PM
 
 

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