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Gotta ask...did anyone have an uninvited guest? (aka: crasher)?

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suven
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Gotta ask...did anyone have an uninvited guest? (aka: crasher)?

I had one. But, he wore a tux, smiled for the pictures, and was extremely pleasant and polite.

Posted 4/22/05 5:15 PM
 

AJsMommy122
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2/20/2005 12:00 AM

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Re: Gotta ask...did anyone have an uninvited guest? (aka: crasher)?


Posted by suven

I had one. But, he wore a tux, smiled for the pictures, and was extremely pleasant and polite.



I didn't that I know of

But as far as crashers go it sounds like you lucked out!!
Not even my invited quests wore a tux and were extemely pleasant and polite!

Posted 4/22/05 6:29 PM
 

kel2004
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8/14/2004 3:00 PM

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Re: Gotta ask...did anyone have an uninvited guest? (aka: crasher)?

My BIL called up one of his friends during the reception and invited him. And yes, he had already brought a date. So now he had 2 guests.

Posted 4/22/05 10:19 PM
 

woozshle
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11/6/2004 2:30 PM

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Re: Gotta ask...did anyone have an uninvited guest? (aka: crasher)?


Posted by kel2004

My BIL called up one of his friends during the reception and invited him. And yes, he had already brought a date. So now he had 2 guests.



yipes!!!

Posted 4/22/05 10:22 PM
 

nov2004bride
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11/5/2004 3:00 PM

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Flowerfield

Re: Gotta ask...did anyone have an uninvited guest? (aka: crasher)?

We had a couple at our cocktail hour that we do not know. All of a sudden we saw them in the video and no one knows them. They were all dressed up and sitting alone. They were looking around a lot

Posted 4/22/05 10:50 PM
 

JENNCHRIS
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Re: Gotta ask...did anyone have an uninvited guest? (aka: crasher)?


Posted by nov2004bride

We had a couple at our cocktail hour that we do not know. All of a sudden we saw them in the video and no one knows them. They were all dressed up and sitting alone. They were looking around a lot


I'm sorry, I don't mean to laugh, but that's funny that someone would have the b@lls to do that!

Posted 4/22/05 10:53 PM
 

BCTM33
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10/29/2004 5:00 PM

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North Ritz Club

Re: Gotta ask...did anyone have an uninvited guest? (aka: crasher)?


Posted by nov2004bride

We had a couple at our cocktail hour that we do not know. All of a sudden we saw them in the video and no one knows them. They were all dressed up and sitting alone. They were looking around a lot



REALLY?! I can't imagine doing that!

As for the post - no crashers here...

Posted 4/22/05 11:14 PM
 

nov2004bride
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11/5/2004 3:00 PM

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Re: Gotta ask...did anyone have an uninvited guest? (aka: crasher)?

We were so mad. And on the video they were even eating and drinking

Posted 4/23/05 9:21 AM
 

JimmysBride
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10/9/2004 12:00 AM

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SandCastle

Re: Gotta ask...did anyone have an uninvited guest? (aka: crasher)?

Yep - I had two.

One was my uncle's fiancee's 10 yr old daughter who caught the bouquet

and the other was one of my cousin's flavor-of-week boyfriends.

Posted 4/23/05 9:28 AM
 

julz33
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Re: Gotta ask...did anyone have an uninvited guest? (aka: crasher)?

None here!

Posted 4/23/05 9:57 AM
 

MrsERod
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Friend

Re: Gotta ask...did anyone have an uninvited guest? (aka: crasher)?

none here either.

Posted 4/23/05 10:01 AM
 

Jen_n_Dale
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Re: Gotta ask...did anyone have an uninvited guest? (aka: crasher)?

None that I know of, but I didn't get the video yet.

I know we have always thought it would be pretty fun to do. although we would never do it.

I think it could also happen if it is a place that holds a few weddings at one time.

Posted 4/23/05 1:22 PM
 

suven
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5/30/2004 2:00 PM

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Re: Gotta ask...did anyone have an uninvited guest? (aka: crasher)?


Posted by nov2004bride

We were so mad. And on the video they were even eating and drinking



could it have been accidental? Was there another wedding at your location?

Posted 4/23/05 1:30 PM
 

palebride
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Re: Gotta ask...did anyone have an uninvited guest? (aka: crasher)?

We had one guy that no one recognized who stayed for about a half hour....I didn't see him, but I was told about him.

Posted 4/23/05 2:17 PM
 

FireIslandLove
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Re: Gotta ask...did anyone have an uninvited guest? (aka: crasher)?

None here that we know about!

Posted 4/23/05 2:55 PM
 

Sweetness
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10/9/2004 11:30 AM

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Re: Gotta ask...did anyone have an uninvited guest? (aka: crasher)?

I had one show up. I saw him come in just As i was being called up to cut our cake. He danced, is in my video.

One of my DH's older friends..

Posted 4/23/05 4:38 PM
 

sun86moon
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3/21/2004 6:00 PM

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Re: Gotta ask...did anyone have an uninvited guest? (aka: crasher)?

Well, my crasher couldn't be seen BUT my friend told me, right after my wedding that she was 3 mos. pregnant! Thankfully we diodn't have to pay for that uninvited guest!

Posted 4/23/05 5:06 PM
 

nov2004bride
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11/5/2004 3:00 PM

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Re: Gotta ask...did anyone have an uninvited guest? (aka: crasher)?


Posted by suven


Posted by nov2004bride

We were so mad. And on the video they were even eating and drinking



could it have been accidental? Was there another wedding at your location?



Nope, on Friday's Flowerfield only has 1 wedding.

Posted 4/23/05 6:35 PM
 

thiadora
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10/3/2004 11:30 AM

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Re: Gotta ask...did anyone have an uninvited guest? (aka: crasher)?


Posted by nov2004bride


Posted by suven


Posted by nov2004bride

We were so mad. And on the video they were even eating and drinking



could it have been accidental? Was there another wedding at your location?



Nope, on Friday's Flowerfield only has 1 wedding.



It just really amazes me. It would take a lot of work and for sight to crash a wedding there because there is never more than one wedding at a time.

Now, the PJCC (now Lombardis). I grew up near there, and I have heard of people going to the club for dinner and then "ending up" at the wedding.

Answer to the original question- We did not have any crashers that we know of at our wedding.

Posted 4/23/05 10:19 PM
 

DottieMcHugh
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2/12/2005 5:30 PM

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Re: Gotta ask...did anyone have an uninvited guest? (aka: crasher)?

Wow, how can anyone do that?

Posted 4/23/05 10:47 PM
 

suven
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5/30/2004 2:00 PM

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Re: Gotta ask...did anyone have an uninvited guest? (aka: crasher)?


Posted by nov2004bride


Posted by suven


Posted by nov2004bride

We were so mad. And on the video they were even eating and drinking



could it have been accidental? Was there another wedding at your location?



Nope, on Friday's Flowerfield only has 1 wedding.



that is terrible! I know that at my ceremony, there was a woman who sat in the very last pew, by herself. We don't know her, but she's in a bunch of my pics from when I was first starting to come down the aisle.

Do you think your crashers could have been a perspective bride and groom? This just comes to mind because I remember seeing a lot of threads when I was first planning where brides would want to go to ceremonies or stop in at a reception/cocktail hour to "observe"...that always turned my stomach.

I know that I had a vendor suggest that we peek in on a wedding. I was horrified. I also made sure that they knew that NO ONE was to "observe" during my wedding!!!

Posted 4/23/05 10:58 PM
 

AJsMommy122
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Re: Gotta ask...did anyone have an uninvited guest? (aka: crasher)?

Oh I just remembered we had at least 1 at the church!!!!!! A friend of mine was going to be getting back from Italy the morning of my wedding. He said he couldn't make it to the reception but if he got home in time he would try and make it to the ceremony ( he lives literally 2 feet from the church's front door!) anyway he is good friends with an Ex of mine and he asked me once joking around if he could bring him to the wedding ( knowing he wasn't coming to the wedding I laughed and didn't think anything of it) anyway as I start my walk down the aisle... I turn my head to the left and wouldn't you know it.. There is my friend sitting with my Ex!!!!! He even waited during the receiving line and said congratulations to me & DH! Poor DH just turned to me and said who the heck was that????? I just shrugged like I didn't know!
I didn't tell him until the next day who it really was

Message edited 4/24/2005 1:15:42 AM.

Posted 4/24/05 1:13 AM
 
 

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