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RedHead
6 people and counting :*
Member since 10/03 18761 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/2/2004 12:00 AM
Wed. Location:
Fox Hollow :)
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Re-ask
I think i asked the question wrong in my previous thread:
When i said, "would you do it again (the wedding process)?" , what i meant was would you want to relive your own wedding experience again from beginning to end.
I didn't mean to imply doing anything differnt...But just having the wedding planning mode back...
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Posted 4/21/05 7:11 AM 
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TracyInQueens
Not a Queens Girl Anymore :(
Member since 6/04 3301 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/15/2004 5:00 PM
Wed. Location:
George Washington Manor
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Re: Re-ask
Posted by RedHead
When i said, "would you do it again (the wedding process)?" , what i meant was would you want to relive your own wedding experience again from beginning to end.
Definitely! Especially since there are parts of the evening that I don't remember- it was really a blur! 
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Posted 4/21/05 7:30 AM
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btrflygrl
Counting My Blessings
Member since 7/03 11106 total posts
Wedding Date:
3/6/2004 11:30 AM
Wed. Location:
Timber Point Country Club
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Re: Re-ask
I'm on the fence about this one....there are so mnay things I would have changed and parts of the planning were H E L L. I did enjoy it though.
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Posted 4/21/05 7:55 AM
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RedHead
6 people and counting :*
Member since 10/03 18761 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/2/2004 12:00 AM
Wed. Location:
Fox Hollow :)
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Re: Re-ask
I think i would definately go through it again
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Posted 4/21/05 8:40 AM
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MrsERod
Praying for Deb ♥
Member since 10/03 5549 total posts
Wedding Date:
11/1/2003 1:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Friend
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Re: Re-ask
if it meant I could wear the dress all over again, and fee like a princess...then definitely YES!!!
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Posted 4/21/05 8:54 AM
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Jax430
Beyond Obsession
Member since 3/03 7661 total posts
Wedding Date:
6/27/2004 6:00 PM
Wed. Location:
East Meadow Jewish Center
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Re: Re-ask
No, i wouldn't do all the planning again. The wedding day yes, but not the planning leading up to it.
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Posted 4/21/05 9:08 AM
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FeliciaDA
I'm a Mommy!
Member since 12/03 11599 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/25/2004 1:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Thatched Cottage A+
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Re: Re-ask
Posted by Jax430
No, i wouldn't do all the planning again. The wedding day yes, but not the planning leading up to it.
Ditto
My wedding DAY was truly magical .. I mean from start to finish it was SO much fun that I can recall constantly looking at DH and saying "I am going to cry when this day is over because I have never been happier" We both wanted to slow it down because it was the best party I'd been to in quite some time, and everyone was having a blast
I know its a cliche but my wedding day was the BEST day of my life thus far
But the planning leading up to it? HELL NO, I was miserable, stressed, sick all the time and worried. I never want to relive that
Message edited 4/21/2005 12:10:14 PM.
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Posted 4/21/05 12:09 PM
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suven
Sunny skies on my wedding day!
Member since 8/03 5968 total posts
Wedding Date:
5/30/2004 2:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Leonard's of Great Neck: A
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Re: Re-ask
no no no
Too many people made the whole experience a miserable hell for me.
I am glad that it happened because DH and I know who the people are who REALLY care about us...
Message edited 4/21/2005 2:19:14 PM.
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Posted 4/21/05 2:18 PM
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jozieb0925
Can't wait for vaca!!!!!!
Member since 7/04 3418 total posts
Wedding Date:
11/10/2010 12:00 AM
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Re: Re-ask
I don't think so. Too many opinions made it a little difficult to deal with.
ETA: refering to the planning process above.
The day I would def. relive!!! That day felt like I completed the biggest project of my life!!
Message edited 4/22/2005 9:04:12 AM.
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Posted 4/21/05 3:28 PM
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julz33
Board Princess
Member since 8/03 11524 total posts
Wedding Date:
9/24/2004 6:30 PM
Wed. Location:
Huntington Townhouse
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Re: Re-ask
Posted by FeliciaDA
Posted by Jax430
No, i wouldn't do all the planning again. The wedding day yes, but not the planning leading up to it.
Ditto
My wedding DAY was truly magical .. I mean from start to finish it was SO much fun that I can recall constantly looking at DH and saying "I am going to cry when this day is over because I have never been happier" We both wanted to slow it down because it was the best party I'd been to in quite some time, and everyone was having a blast
I know its a cliche but my wedding day was the BEST day of my life thus far
But the planning leading up to it? HELL NO, I was miserable, stressed, sick all the time and worried. I never want to relive that
I agree with Jax and Felicia. I would like to relieve the shower, bachelorette parties, wedding day, honeymoon... but NEVER the planning.
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Posted 4/21/05 5:59 PM
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brideinapril
My First Love.....
Member since 11/03 4449 total posts
Wedding Date:
4/17/2004 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Rockhill in Manorville
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Re: Re-ask
Posted by julz33
Posted by FeliciaDA
Posted by Jax430
No, i wouldn't do all the planning again. The wedding day yes, but not the planning leading up to it.
Ditto
My wedding DAY was truly magical .. I mean from start to finish it was SO much fun that I can recall constantly looking at DH and saying "I am going to cry when this day is over because I have never been happier" We both wanted to slow it down because it was the best party I'd been to in quite some time, and everyone was having a blast
I know its a cliche but my wedding day was the BEST day of my life thus far
But the planning leading up to it? HELL NO, I was miserable, stressed, sick all the time and worried. I never want to relive that
I agree with Jax and Felicia. I would like to relieve the shower, bachelorette parties, wedding day, honeymoon... but NEVER the planning.
I'm afraid I agree with these girls, I would love to do my wedding day again, because it was truly the best party I'd ever been too, and it was for us. It was such an awesome day. But as for the planning - I wouldn't want to do that part again.
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Posted 4/21/05 6:59 PM
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JimmysBride
Board Princess
Member since 7/03 10135 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/9/2004 12:00 AM
Wed. Location:
SandCastle
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Re: Re-ask
I would definitely relive the wedding day but most of the planning - no, even though I enjoyed it.
If I could pick just one part of planning that I would relive - it would be gown shopping!
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Posted 4/22/05 9:57 AM
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tourist
Beyond Obsession
Member since 12/03 9094 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/9/2004 4:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Milleridge Carriage House
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Re: Re-ask
Posted by Jax430
No, I wouldn't do all the planning again. The wedding day yes, but not the planning leading up to it.
yeah, I think I agreee. I don't mind planning too much, I liked picking out details, but it was toostressfull on top of work & always feeling like I wasn't making choices fast enough for Mom & MIL
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Posted 4/22/05 12:36 PM
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halloweenbride04
Proud Mommy!
Member since 8/03 2665 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/31/2004 2:30 PM
Wed. Location:
Miller Place Inn
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Re: Re-ask
For the most part I enjoyed the planning I could do without some of the drama that went on but I'd relive my wedding day a million times over! 
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Posted 4/22/05 9:35 PM
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cocoa
I love my mer-man!!!
Member since 1/04 5870 total posts
Wedding Date:
8/8/2004 12:00 PM
Wed. Location:
thatched cottage
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Re: Re-ask
good question. there are days where i think, hey if we didn't have the wedding, we'd have more money going for our house. but we had an awesome day, many memories and i know in 10 years, i would have regretted not having one!
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Posted 4/23/05 9:58 AM
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kel2004
"I'm Addicted"
Member since 10/03 2905 total posts
Wedding Date:
8/14/2004 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Hamlet Wind Watch
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Re: Re-ask
I didn't mind the planning, but the anticipation of the day drove me crazy. Just waiting for it, and always wondering how it was going to be... Constantly thinking about it... It was such a relief when it was over, I couldn't believe it. I thought I would be sad afterward, but it was the best feeling. But the day was so wonderful that I would be tempted to do it again just for that... So I guess my answer is: I don't know! 
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Posted 4/24/05 9:23 PM
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FireIslandLove
I love the weekends!!!
Member since 9/03 1185 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/23/2004 2:30 PM
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Re: Re-ask
Yes, even though I was SOOO stressed, it was still more fun than being in school! I hated the feeling of feeling like I had to please everyone but I *think* and hope I handled that part well. DH and I have SO many funny and fun memories, I would do it all in a second just for that. We really did have such a fun engagement and really made the most of it. All of our friends and family were so happy and supportive of us and that made it so amazing too!
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Posted 4/28/05 11:00 PM
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