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Soon2BMrsA
Loving Married Life!
Member since 11/04 2856 total posts
Wedding Date:
6/18/2005 4:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Greentree Country Club
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Re: NWR- anyone trying to get pregnant before the wedding- like weeks so you dont show?
Posted by randella
um... FH is lucky if we do it before our 5th anniversary!
lol, same here!!
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Posted 4/7/05 3:02 PM 
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JessicaM.
totally
Member since 3/05 10894 total posts
Wedding Date:
4/23/2006 12:00 AM
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shes gonna dream up the world she wants to live in
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Re: NWR- anyone trying to get pregnant before the wedding- like weeks so you dont show?
I understand the desire to start...I don't want to wait too long either, but I agree with everyone else about what it will do to you physically, but think also of the child...wedding time, as well all know, is very stressful especially the days leading up to it, which is not good for a growing fetus.
but with 4 weeks to go, no one's telling you not to have a few "practice" runs! 
Enjoy being a bride and a newlywed. those moments are fleeting...being a parent is for a lifetime.
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Posted 4/7/05 3:06 PM
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jimmysgrl
It's An Obsession
Member since 10/04 3543 total posts
Wedding Date:
12/3/2005 3:30 PM
Wed. Location:
Harrison House
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Re: NWR- anyone trying to get pregnant before the wedding- like weeks so you dont show?
Posted by randella
um... FH is lucky if we do it before our 5th anniversary!
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Posted 4/7/05 3:06 PM
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David'sbride
Soon to be Mom of Twins!!!!
Member since 7/04 3412 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/4/2005 11:00 AM
Wed. Location:
Watermill
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Re: NWR- anyone trying to get pregnant before the wedding- like weeks so you dont show?
Posted by jimmysgrl
Everyone's situation is different so please take everyone's exclamation marks on the subject with a grain of salt. IMO, if thats what you and your FH want to do then I'd say go for it! My friend is doing that for her upcoming wedding remembering that her first child took a couple of months to conceive. Although the girls had really good points that I would have to consider before doing it, you do what feels right for you. 
Yes, for example if your clock is ticking and you are a teacher, like me. Ideally, if I was to conceive before the wedding (July) in May I'd have a month more maternity leave. I can understand the timing of conception. My friend is an accountant (understandablly her children are not born between January and April) and being a teacher A LOT of my colleagues try to time it. If their due date is in January they don't come back until September. If they can't afford that, they time for March because that will be 12 weeks before the end of the school year so you maximize your maternity leave without losing money and then get the summer off. However, if you are untenured (one of my colleagues) she HAD to time it for July so she could come right back in Sept.
To each his or her own.
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Posted 4/7/05 3:09 PM
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july06bride
Happy First Anniversary to Us!
Member since 12/04 7796 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/1/2006 2:45 PM
Wed. Location:
East Wind Estate
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Re: NWR- anyone trying to get pregnant before the wedding- like weeks so you dont show?
I say no way..for many of the same reasons as stated above!
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Posted 4/7/05 3:21 PM
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Janice
Don't call it a comeback
Member since 6/01 3270 total posts
Wedding Date:
6/1/2002 12:00 AM
Wed. Location:
Staten Island
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Re: NWR- anyone trying to get pregnant before the wedding- like weeks so you dont show?
I did watch one episode of a baby story though, where bride had severe endometriosis(sp) and they said she would have a rough time getting preggo...it turned out 8 weeks before she got married, she got preggo, and they announced it at the wedding to all their family. And all of her family members were so happy and celebrating.
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Posted 4/7/05 3:30 PM
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pinky424
Board Fanatic
Member since 6/04 640 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/7/2005 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Woodbury Country Club A++
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Re: NWR- anyone trying to get pregnant before the wedding- like weeks so you dont show?
Not at all. We decided to wait a few years until we try.
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Posted 4/7/05 3:34 PM
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kp1528
Wedding Newbie
Member since 1/05 42 total posts
Wedding Date:
12/15/2006 12:00 AM
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Re: NWR- anyone trying to get pregnant before the wedding- like weeks so you dont show?
HELLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL NO
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Posted 4/7/05 3:38 PM
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mcaula
Bun in the Oven:)
Member since 5/04 1921 total posts
Wedding Date:
8/26/2005 7:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Chateau La Mer
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Re: NWR- anyone trying to get pregnant before the wedding- like weeks so you dont show?
No way I wanna get my drink on and enjoy myself at the wedding and on the honeymoon 
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Posted 4/7/05 3:46 PM
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germai68
So close, I can't stand it!
Member since 1/05 1021 total posts
Wedding Date:
9/23/2005 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Swan Club
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Re: NWR- anyone trying to get pregnant before the wedding- like weeks so you dont show?
Couldn't afford to have kids and plan a wedding. But I hope to start right afterwards. But we'll see because my brother is getting married soon as well (probably June 2006) and I don't want to make his fiance deal with a preggo bridesmaid!!!
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Posted 4/7/05 3:46 PM
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beautyq115
Board Princess
Member since 12/04 16774 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/16/2006 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Swan Club...AMAZING
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Re: NWR- anyone trying to get pregnant before the wedding- like weeks so you dont show?
One of my friends did this...she and her husband were having fertility problems. They tried way before the wedding...but were unsucessful. She had many miscarriages but now she has two healthy twins 
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Posted 4/7/05 5:24 PM
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amyandeddie
"I'm Addicted"
Member since 5/04 1567 total posts
Wedding Date:
8/14/2005 2:30 PM
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Re: NWR- anyone trying to get pregnant before the wedding- like weeks so you dont show?
Hells no
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Posted 4/7/05 5:27 PM
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shellnroc
My Everything!
Member since 9/04 4961 total posts
Wedding Date:
6/9/2006 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Villa Lombardi's.... Beyond Amazing!
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Re: NWR- anyone trying to get pregnant before the wedding- like weeks so you dont show?
No not yet. During the HM maybe but not before.
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Posted 4/7/05 5:30 PM
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Summer05
We're Married!!!!
Member since 5/04 3789 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/21/2005 12:00 AM
Wed. Location:
Watermill
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Re: NWR- anyone trying to get pregnant before the wedding- like weeks so you dont show?
No Way!
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Posted 4/7/05 7:11 PM
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Kris77
Board Fanatic
Member since 12/04 474 total posts
Wedding Date:
8/28/2005 12:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Westbury Manor
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Re: NWR- anyone trying to get pregnant before the wedding- like weeks so you dont show?
Oh Hell No.
A couple of months does not make a difference no matter how fast your clock is ticking. Besides, I wouldnt feel right at the wedding knowing I was pregnant, and its not something I would want people to know. People are over dramatic as it is, I wouldnt want to be the talk of the town.
P.S. My mother was pregnant with me at their wedding.
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Posted 4/7/05 7:15 PM
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buggiegirl
bring on the diet!!
Member since 3/05 1170 total posts
Wedding Date:
9/2/2006 11:00 AM
Wed. Location:
The Thayer Hotel @ West Point
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Re: NWR- anyone trying to get pregnant before the wedding- like weeks so you dont show?
not a chance!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Posted 4/7/05 7:20 PM
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girlygrl33
"I'm Addicted"
Member since 10/02 2644 total posts
Wedding Date:
4/22/2005 7:00 PM
Wed. Location:
because
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Re: NWR- anyone trying to get pregnant before the wedding- like weeks so you dont show?
Posted by jimmysgrl
Everyone's situation is different so please take everyone's exclamation marks on the subject with a grain of salt. IMO, if thats what you and your FH want to do then I'd say go for it! My friend is doing that for her upcoming wedding remembering that her first child took a couple of months to conceive. Although the girls had really good points that I would have to consider before doing it, you do what feels right for you.
Awww thank you, see Im 34 and getting married the 22 of this month. We really want a family right away and Im ovulating NOW so we thought hmmm maybe- i wouldnt be sick for the wedding or HM, you can still drink ( I asked the doctor) and theres a chance I may not conceive right away. A lot of my friends have been trying for years and months and nothing so we figured what would it matter if we started now and if I did get prego right away its a gift, especially at my age and would be first child. But we'll see we may wait till next month, after the wedding, we are tossing it in the air but I had to ask you guys what you thought. Thank you for all honest opinions I appreciate it. I am really curious if anyone else was possibly thinking of this as well.
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Posted 4/7/05 9:17 PM
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girlygrl33
"I'm Addicted"
Member since 10/02 2644 total posts
Wedding Date:
4/22/2005 7:00 PM
Wed. Location:
because
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Re: NWR- anyone trying to get pregnant before the wedding- like weeks so you dont show?
Posted by JessicaM.
I understand the desire to start...I don't want to wait too long either, but I agree with everyone else about what it will do to you physically, but think also of the child...wedding time, as well all know, is very stressful especially the days leading up to it, which is not good for a growing fetus.
but with 4 weeks to go, no one's telling you not to have a few "practice" runs!
Enjoy being a bride and a newlywed. those moments are fleeting...being a parent is for a lifetime.
We have been living together for 4 years and allready have a house so to us its like weve been married allready so thats another reason why we figured too why wait and practice makes perfect, 
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Posted 4/7/05 9:23 PM
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