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swags1016
So in love
Member since 3/03 12235 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/26/2003 12:30 PM
Wed. Location:
East Wind- The Estate- A+
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Newlywed question for today
What changed the most after you were married??
Good or Bad doesn't matter.
Message edited 3/18/2005 6:37:55 AM.
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Posted 3/18/05 6:37 AM 
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RedHead
6 people and counting :*
Member since 10/03 18761 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/2/2004 12:00 AM
Wed. Location:
Fox Hollow :)
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Re: Newlywed question for today
fundamentally nothing 
But in my heart..i feel like a different person...
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Posted 3/18/05 6:40 AM
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TracyInQueens
Not a Queens Girl Anymore :(
Member since 6/04 3301 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/15/2004 5:00 PM
Wed. Location:
George Washington Manor
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Re: Newlywed question for today
Posted by RedHead
fundamentally nothing
But in my heart..i feel like a different person...
Yes, that's how it was for me too. We had been living together for several months, so the day-to-day has been the same. But I feel like the day-to-day is more special. And I feel like our bond is deeper. I think almost every day I remember that moment when the ceremony was over and we walked down the aisle together. That was my favorite moment and I still feel overjoyed about it. 
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Posted 3/18/05 7:29 AM
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brideinapril
My First Love.....
Member since 11/03 4449 total posts
Wedding Date:
4/17/2004 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Rockhill in Manorville
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Re: Newlywed question for today
Having to share my money - even though we lived together before - we still had our own accounts - now we share a joint account that we pay our bills from - Don't get me wrong - I still have my seperate account - but its different now.
I guess I should also add having to explain what I spend money on - I can't say I like that.
Message edited 3/18/2005 8:47:31 AM.
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Posted 3/18/05 8:46 AM
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Kelly9904
Mom, forever in my Heart!
Member since 8/03 2545 total posts
Wedding Date:
6/26/2004 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Meadow Club - Port JeffersonA +++++
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Re: Newlywed question for today
EVERYTHING!
We never lived together before we got married, so we moved into our new house when we got back from our HM! THat was quite an adjustment and for the first few months we had some growing pains. But it was fun and we love living together!
But to me the thing that changed the most in the last 9 months would be our strength as a couple. Not that I had any doubts before but with all we have been through this year, the ups and downs of the wedding, losing my mom, etc. I know without a doubt that I can rely on him for anything! He is my strength when I feel like I dont have any. I dont know if I ever needed him as much as I have in the past 5 months, but he has not once let me down!
When your faith, strength and, to a point your relationship, is tested with something that life altering and emotionally draining, you find out who you can truly count on. And I love knowing that he will always be there to take care of me when I need him.
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Posted 3/18/05 8:50 AM
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treilly13
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Member since 12/03 1077 total posts
Wedding Date:
2/26/2005 2:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Jericho Terrace
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Re: Newlywed question for today
Posted by RedHead
fundamentally nothing
But in my heart..i feel like a different person...
This is true for us too. I keep telling people it's the same but better, if that makes any sense.
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Posted 3/18/05 8:57 AM
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shamrock12472
"I'm Addicted"
Member since 5/04 1280 total posts
Wedding Date:
9/17/2004 6:30 PM
Wed. Location:
Atlantis Marine World
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Re: Newlywed question for today
I do a heck of a lot more laundry and dishes!!!
But, what really has changed, is I now have a sense of security such as I don't have to carry everything on my own.
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Posted 3/18/05 9:03 AM
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FireIslandLove
I love the weekends!!!
Member since 9/03 1185 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/23/2004 2:30 PM
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Re: Newlywed question for today
We didn't live together before we got married and thought once we did we'd get to spend so much time together, unfortunately because of work, the gym, errands and both of us in school we don't. So that hasn't changed, but what has changed is that we try harder than ever to make quality time for one another and to still go on "dates" - I get more excited now about getting alone time and date-time with him than ever!
Also, I realized what a great SAHD he might be someday - he does laundry, vacuums, the dishes, garbage, etc. It's our little running joke 
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Posted 3/18/05 10:14 AM
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DrmnBlnd
I need a vacation!!
Member since 12/02 5976 total posts
Wedding Date:
5/15/2004 12:20 PM
Wed. Location:
Giorgio's
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Re: Newlywed question for today
Posted by RedHead
fundamentally nothing
But in my heart..i feel like a different person...
ditto
I don't know what I would do without him.
Message edited 3/18/2005 10:17:02 AM.
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Posted 3/18/05 10:16 AM
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FeliciaDA
I'm a Mommy!
Member since 12/03 11599 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/25/2004 1:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Thatched Cottage A+
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Re: Newlywed question for today
Posted by RedHead
fundamentally nothing
But in my heart..i feel like a different person...
Perfectly said!
We were living together for close to a year.. and in every way we acted/seemed married. but actually BEING married just feels so different (in a good way!)
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Posted 3/18/05 10:18 AM
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wood2be
My Prince has come!
Member since 1/04 2639 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/10/2004 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Montauk Yacht Club - FM me for details
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Re: Newlywed question for today
So much changed for us. We had a long distance relationship for most of our 5 years together. Moving in together after the wedding, was a HUGE adjustment. It was a little rough at first, but we are having a great time now.
Money is a big issue too. I'm not used to explaining where every penny goes.
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Posted 3/18/05 10:35 AM
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Moehick
So Happy Together
Member since 9/03 7333 total posts
Wedding Date:
3/14/2004 4:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Westbury Manor
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Re: Newlywed question for today
EVERYTHING!!! Where as before we were boyfriend and girlfriend now we are FAMILY!!
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Posted 3/18/05 10:35 AM
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swags1016
So in love
Member since 3/03 12235 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/26/2003 12:30 PM
Wed. Location:
East Wind- The Estate- A+
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Re: Newlywed question for today
Posted by FeliciaDA
Posted by RedHead
fundamentally nothing
But in my heart..i feel like a different person...
Perfectly said!
We were living together for close to a year.. and in every way we acted/seemed married. but actually BEING married just feels so different (in a good way!)
Exactly I remember a friend asking me a few months after we were married and all I could say was that it was different and that I just felt this whole new level of 'respect' for lack of a better word. I just LOVE staring at his ring and knowing that we are as Moe said a family now. Through thick and thin.
It truly is a comforting feeling.
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Posted 3/18/05 12:58 PM
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MrsERod
Praying for Deb ♥
Member since 10/03 5549 total posts
Wedding Date:
11/1/2003 1:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Friend
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Re: Newlywed question for today
Posted by swags1016
What changed the most after you were married??
Good or Bad doesn't matter.
I now feel safe and secure. 
And of course, blissfully happy!!
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Posted 3/18/05 1:37 PM
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palebride
Intercourse knows no season...
Member since 6/03 12375 total posts
Wedding Date:
4/3/2004 12:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Watermill
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Re: Newlywed question for today
i feel like i'm more of an adult...which is scary
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Posted 3/18/05 1:58 PM
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nov04LIbride
Asshatery: Nature or nurture?
Member since 3/04 8138 total posts
Wedding Date:
11/6/2004 11:00 AM
Wed. Location:
Hard-boiled eggs also have hearts of gold.
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Re: Newlywed question for today
Posted by Kelly9904
EVERYTHING!
We never lived together before we got married, so we moved into our new house when we got back from our HM! THat was quite an adjustment and for the first few months we had some growing pains. But it was fun and we love living together!
That was us too! The first months were (are? ) hard, but the little things make me so happy--I was home sick yesterday and on his way home he brought me a Slurpee and medicine to help my throat. I love knowing that I will have someone to take care of me and be there forever.
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Posted 3/18/05 2:02 PM
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LadyPrincess
My Alpha & Omega,My Love
Member since 2/04 8881 total posts
Wedding Date:
3/5/2005 11:00 AM
Wed. Location:
Ariana WaterFall
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Re: Newlywed question for today
Posted by RedHead
fundamentally nothing
But in my heart..i feel like a different person...
i agree also - i feel a warm sense of security & loved 
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Posted 3/18/05 2:04 PM
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DottieMcHugh
Board Fanatic
Member since 3/05 306 total posts
Wedding Date:
2/12/2005 5:30 PM
Wed. Location:
The Meadow Club
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Re: Newlywed question for today
I have to agree the most with this one! The money thing is an adjustment for me.
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Posted 3/18/05 10:11 PM
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hmm8191
Am I still a newlywed?
Member since 3/04 2180 total posts
Wedding Date:
2/19/2005 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
The Metropolitan
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Re: Newlywed question for today
MY NAME!! I'm still getting used to that one.
I'm sure this isn't what you meant!!
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Posted 3/18/05 10:19 PM
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Janine24
We could not ask for more...
Member since 7/03 3945 total posts
Wedding Date:
11/7/2004 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Swan Club...WOW!!!
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Re: Newlywed question for today
they way we look at each other...
(and then some more cleaning...hahahaha)
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Posted 3/20/05 8:29 PM
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August2004
12 days left!!
Member since 10/03 1250 total posts
Wedding Date:
8/6/2004 4:00 PM
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Re: Newlywed question for today
I would definitely say that I look at DH differently now. I think we have a deeper connection now. I am becoming less selfish as well since we got married.
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Posted 3/20/05 8:38 PM
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