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ambersmom
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Family question....

I'm planning a reasonably large surprise 70th for my Mom in the summer. Problem is, I'm not speaking to 1/2 of my family (two brothers, one sister in law). Soo.....do I invite them because the party is technically for Mom or do I just make it about her friends to avoid any uncomfortable moments between my brothers and I. I don't have an issue inviting them persay, but I know they won't show.

Any thoughts??

Posted 3/7/05 2:54 PM
 

brideinapril
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Re: Family question....

I would invite them anyway - for your Moms sake. Its their choice if they want to come or not.

Posted 3/7/05 2:56 PM
 

Shorty McBride
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Re: Family question....


Posted by brideinapril

I would invite them anyway - for your Moms sake. Its their choice if they want to come or not.



ditto


p.s. .... will this be a NAKED party?!? Are you serving CRACK SAMMICHES beyotch?!? Hey Sharon

Message edited 3/7/2005 3:12:33 PM.

Posted 3/7/05 2:56 PM
 

AliKing
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Woodbury CC

Re: Family question....

Is your mom on speaking terms with them? If so then I would invite them. I think she would want them to be there...
Also if you dont invite them and they find out, it may make the situation worse between you and them.
Also this could be an opportunity to resolve any of the issues you have between you.

Posted 3/7/05 2:58 PM
 

Marcie
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10/22/2004 3:30 PM

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Bellport Country Club

Re: Family question....


Posted by AliKing

Is your mom on speaking terms with them? If so then I would invite them. I think she would want them to be there...
Also if you dont invite them and they find out, it may make the situation worse between you and them.
Also this could be an opportunity to resolve any of the issues you have between you.



I agree

Posted 3/7/05 3:02 PM
 

ambersmom
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Re: Family question....


Posted by shorty the pumpkin


Posted by brideinapril

I would invite them anyway - for your Moms sake. Its their choice if they want to come or not.



ditto


p.s. .... will this be a NAKED party?!? Are you service CRACK SAMMICHES beyotch?!? Hey Sharon



+++ on the crack sammiches, I think I'll need some that day but thumbs down on the nakedness. Unless you want to see the wrinklies on some 70 year old guys

Posted 3/7/05 3:05 PM
 

Shorty McBride
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Wedding Date:
11/23/2007 5:00 PM

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Winter Garden Pavilion, Fox Hollow

Re: Family question....

oh boy...

Posted 3/7/05 3:12 PM
 
 

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