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How far in advice do you need to ask your readers to particpate in the ceremony?

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marc_rai
It's almost JULY!!!! ACK!

Member since 9/04

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Wedding Date:
7/3/2005 4:00 PM

Wed. Location:
Crest Hollow

How far in advice do you need to ask your readers to particpate in the ceremony?

I haven't done this yet? And I have no idea on who I should ask. Do you think if I wait two more months that would be too late?

Posted 3/4/05 11:43 AM
 

eogara
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Member since 2/04

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Wedding Date:
4/3/2005 6:00 PM

Wed. Location:
Milleridge Cottage

Re: How far in advice do you need to ask your readers to particpate in the ceremony?

No, I just did this about a month ago, I think you're fine.

Posted 3/4/05 11:44 AM
 

PrincessPeanut
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Wedding Date:
5/21/2005 7:00 PM

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Windwatch Resort & Hamlet Golf Club

Re: How far in advice do you need to ask your readers to particpate in the ceremony?

Not at all. I think that gives them plenty of time- I haven't asked mine yet.

Posted 3/4/05 11:45 AM
 

Marcie
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10/22/2004 3:30 PM

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Bellport Country Club

Re: How far in advice do you need to ask your readers to particpate in the ceremony?

Sorry to but into your board - I asked about a month before my wedding.
We didn't want to rush into asking anyone so we waited an made sure the people that we wanted to ask were the people we asked.

Posted 3/4/05 11:46 AM
 

m&m
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Wedding Date:
12/17/2005 5:15 PM

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Westbury Manor - A

Re: How far in advice do you need to ask your readers to particpate in the ceremony?

I asked mine early only because I didn't want two friends to feel left out since I had asked the other two close friends in our group to be in the bridal party. (We had wanted to keep it small).

But I think traditionally you can ask them much closer to the wedding.

Posted 3/4/05 11:47 AM
 

diamondgrlie
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Wedding Date:
6/3/2005 3:00 PM

Wed. Location:
Woodbury Country Club - A+

Re: How far in advice do you need to ask your readers to particpate in the ceremony?

We just asked one of them last weekend and I still have to ask the other one.

Posted 3/4/05 11:50 AM
 

Laura1976
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Wedding Date:
5/7/2005 5:00 PM

Wed. Location:
US Merchant Marine Academy A+++++++++++++++++

Re: How far in advice do you need to ask your readers to particpate in the ceremony?


Posted by Marcie

Sorry to but into your board - I asked about a month before my wedding.
We didn't want to rush into asking anyone so we waited an made sure the people that we wanted to ask were the people we asked.




good idea, i still haven't asked my readers. I wantee to get a better idea of different ways i could incorporate special people into the wedding.

Posted 3/4/05 12:48 PM
 

gina&ken
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Wedding Date:
4/16/2005 2:00 PM

Wed. Location:
Stewart Manor CC

Re: How far in advice do you need to ask your readers to particpate in the ceremony?

i just asked one yesterday, and another 2 weeks ago.

Posted 3/4/05 1:33 PM
 

lilacwine
In-between days

Member since 9/04

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Wedding Date:
5/14/2005 12:00 AM

Wed. Location:
booked

Re: How far in advice do you need to ask your readers to particpate in the ceremony?

We asked one months ago and he said NO!!!

That scared us off, so now we're waiting until we get responses to see which of my cousins will be coming to the wedding.

I suppose I have to ask them before they wonder why they got an RD invitation!

Posted 3/4/05 1:47 PM
 

SomethingBlu
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Member since 10/04

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Wedding Date:
5/27/2005 3:00 PM

Wed. Location:
Jericho Terrace - A+

Re: How far in advice do you need to ask your readers to particpate in the ceremony?


Posted by lilacwine

We asked one months ago and he said NO!!!

That scared us off, so now we're waiting until we get responses to see which of my cousins will be coming to the wedding.

I suppose I have to ask them before they wonder why they got an RD invitation!



Aw, I'm sorry! Don't get discouraged, your MOH or the BM can make excellent readers! That's what FH's brother did.

We just asked my friend to read yesterday...she's in Italy and I couldn't wait until she got back (the week of the wedding).

Posted 3/4/05 3:28 PM
 

o17range
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Member since 9/04

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Wedding Date:
6/10/2005 4:00 PM

Wed. Location:
The Woodlands

Re: How far in advice do you need to ask your readers to particpate in the ceremony?

I asked one of my readers this past weekend and we still have a few others to go. We're still trying to figure out our ceremony. Since we don't see this person very often, I figured I'd do it sooner rather than later.

Posted 3/4/05 3:29 PM
 

marc_rai
It's almost JULY!!!! ACK!

Member since 9/04

2368 total posts

Wedding Date:
7/3/2005 4:00 PM

Wed. Location:
Crest Hollow

Re: How far in advice do you need to ask your readers to particpate in the ceremony?

Thanks everyone for the input. At least I know that I am not behind schedule on this.

Posted 3/4/05 7:34 PM
 
 

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