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gloriaalexander108
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Good Bye All

FH and I have called the wedding off and have gone our seperate ways. Better now than later...Now I just have to try & get some money back because EVERYTHING was already booked... Well happy planning to everyone else

Posted 12/6/04 3:57 PM
 

CaCRmr
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Re: Good Bye All

Good Luck Gloria. I can't imagine how you must be feeling but at least it's still early enough. Many hugs your way!!!!

Posted 12/6/04 3:59 PM
 

12-3Princess
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10/29/2005 3:30 PM

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Re: Good Bye All

I'm so sorry that you're going through this - FM me if you ever need a random person to talk to that's uninvolved in the rest of your life!!!!


HUGS TO YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Posted 12/6/04 3:59 PM
 

gloriaalexander108
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6/24/2006 6:30 PM

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john anthony's on the Water

Re: Good Bye All

Thank you so much

Posted 12/6/04 4:00 PM
 

hbradio
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Re: Good Bye All

I am so sorry you are going through this!! We are all here for you no matter what! Just be happy it happened sooner rather than later and your wedding was far enough away where I am sure the vendors will be understanding. They have plenty of time to re-book.

Posted 12/6/04 4:01 PM
 

7706bride
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7/7/2006 2:00 PM

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Glen Island Harbor Club

Re: Good Bye All

I am so sorry that you are going through this rough time. Be strong and hang in there!!!!

Posted 12/6/04 4:02 PM
 

LadyPrincess
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3/5/2005 11:00 AM

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Re: Good Bye All


Posted by hbradio

I am so sorry you are going through this!! We are all here for you no matter what! Just be happy it happened sooner rather than later and your wedding was far enough away where I am sure the vendors will be understanding. They have plenty of time to re-book.




I can only ditto HB

PLEASE stay on the boards for
our support

Posted 12/6/04 4:03 PM
 

gloriaalexander108
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Re: Good Bye All

Yea I'm pretty sure I can get some of it back except the dj the $800 dept. is not refundable thank you all I cant tell you how much help you girls have been and how many great ideas I have gotten for you all.

Posted 12/6/04 4:03 PM
 

nferrandi
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10/9/2004 6:30 PM

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Re: Good Bye All

I'm so sorry that things didn't work out.
Thankfully, like someone else said, you shouldn't have too much trouble getting your money back since there's plenty of time for the vendors to rebook.

Posted 12/6/04 4:05 PM
 

PIZZ2306
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2/3/2006 4:00 PM

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Floral Terrace

Re: Good Bye All

I am so sorry.

Posted 12/6/04 4:05 PM
 

LadyPrincess
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Re: Good Bye All

you have FM

Message edited 12/6/2004 4:21:53 PM.

Posted 12/6/04 4:05 PM
 

DMcK
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5/13/2005 7:00 PM

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Westbury Manor

Re: Good Bye All

I am so sorry that things didn't work out. Take comfort in your heart that you are doing the right thing. Like you said, better now than later, and it takes a strong person to do the right thing. Hang in there.

Posted 12/6/04 4:06 PM
 

gloriaalexander108
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john anthony's on the Water

Re: Good Bye All

Do I have to give monetary (sp?) engagement gifts back?

Posted 12/6/04 4:07 PM
 

ladybug78
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Re: Good Bye All

So sorry ...good luck with everything you do!!

Posted 12/6/04 4:08 PM
 

curliegirl
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don't bother, they are awful people!!!!

Re: Good Bye All


Posted by gloriaalexander108

Yea I'm pretty sure I can get some of it back except the dj the $800 dept. is not refundable thank you all I cant tell you how much help you girls have been and how many great ideas I have gotten for you all.



If your DJ won't give you your $$$ back, make sure they at least let you use that money toward a future event, other wise take their butts to court. They have not provided a service for you and should not be able to keep that deposit.

I work for a DJ ompany, so I can give you a little advice!

Good Luck to You

Posted 12/6/04 4:11 PM
 

SANDNOV12
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11/12/2004 3:00 PM

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Re: Good Bye All

I am so sorry. Better to know now and be happier later!

Posted 12/6/04 4:11 PM
 

jj04
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Re: Good Bye All

sorry to hear that..best of luck to you... just because the wedding has been called off you can still stick around and join us on the NWR and Off topic board.

Posted 12/6/04 4:14 PM
 

nferrandi
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10/9/2004 6:30 PM

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Re: Good Bye All


Posted by gloriaalexander108

Do I have to give monetary (sp?) engagement gifts back?



Technically I think you're supposed to. I do know that if a marriage last less than a year, everything is supposed to be returned.

Posted 12/6/04 4:16 PM
 

ckgmwedding
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Re: Good Bye All

I am so sorry to hear the news. I think you have the best perspective when you say better now than later. I broke off an engagement 8 years ago and it was the best thing I could have done for me. Now I get to marry my soulmate and he was worth the wait.
But its still really, really hard so here are some

Posted 12/6/04 4:17 PM
 

anjerandunder
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Carlyle on the Green A++

Re: Good Bye All

i'm sorry to hear..i'm sure it was the right decision for the both of you..good luck getting you're money back from your vendors..we're always here for you if you need to vent

Posted 12/6/04 4:20 PM
 

goingtobemrs
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Re: Good Bye All

I'm sorry. Better now than after the wedding! Stay strong!

Posted 12/6/04 4:20 PM
 

nov04LIbride
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Re: Good Bye All


Posted by nferrandi


Posted by gloriaalexander108

Do I have to give monetary (sp?) engagement gifts back?



Technically I think you're supposed to. I do know that if a marriage last less than a year, everything is supposed to be returned.



Good luck! I am sure it was the right thing to do--much better to realize it now. I think you are supposed to return the gifts though...

Posted 12/6/04 4:26 PM
 

LO13LO13
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8/13/2005 7:00 PM

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Re: Good Bye All


Posted by anjerandunder

i'm sorry to hear..i'm sure it was the right decision for the both of you..good luck getting you're money back from your vendors..we're always here for you if you need to vent


i agree, so sorry to hear that.

Posted 12/6/04 4:29 PM
 

divabride
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Re: Good Bye All

Im so sorry to hear... We are all here if you ever need to talk!!

Posted 12/6/04 4:35 PM
 

barb04
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Re: Good Bye All

I am so sorry that things didn't work out. Best of Luck

Posted 12/6/04 4:37 PM
 
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