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OSCARtheGROOM
Kings of estrogen free posse!
Member since 3/04 3191 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/10/2005 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Villa Lombardi's
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Important question about "and guest" . . . (Sending out STDs)
On the flip side of people being insulted if they are invited WITHOUT a guest, do you think it might be insulting to invite someone WITH a guest that you knew was not dating anyone? I ask this because I do not want to make people feel bad by inviting them with a guest, yet you never know if someone has a friend or if they might be dating by the time the wedding rolls around. Any thoughts?
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Posted 12/5/04 10:15 AM 
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MrsERod
Praying for Deb ♥
Member since 10/03 5549 total posts
Wedding Date:
11/1/2003 1:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Friend
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Re: Important question about "and guest" . . . (Sending out STDs)
For those single persons I wanted to invite to our wedding, I did include "and guest" on their invitation. I gave them the option to come alone, or bring a date.
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Posted 12/5/04 10:16 AM
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AJsMommy122
Happily Ever After!
Member since 12/03 10711 total posts
Wedding Date:
2/20/2005 12:00 AM
Wed. Location:
SandCastle
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Re: Important question about "and guest" . . . (Sending out STDs)
Sorry I thought this was for invitations! I posted below!
Message edited 12/5/2004 10:52:05 AM.
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Posted 12/5/04 10:18 AM
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PinkSoil
I went to Graceland!!!
Member since 9/04 1022 total posts
Wedding Date:
9/23/2005 7:00 PM
Wed. Location:
George Washington Manor
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Re: Important question about "and guest" . . . (Sending out STDs)
Don't feel like you'll be insulting anyone-- Remember, it is customary to add "and guest" on an invitation, and people know that-- People know they have the option of coming single, as well... You won't be hurting anyone.
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Posted 12/5/04 10:27 AM
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Laura1976
Just call me Mrs.
Member since 8/04 1953 total posts
Wedding Date:
5/7/2005 5:00 PM
Wed. Location:
US Merchant Marine Academy A+++++++++++++++++
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Re: Important question about "and guest" . . . (Sending out STDs)
I'm sending out my STD's this week. Even people that will be invited with a guest, i'm just adressing their STD's with their names alone.
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Posted 12/5/04 10:29 AM
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AJsMommy122
Happily Ever After!
Member since 12/03 10711 total posts
Wedding Date:
2/20/2005 12:00 AM
Wed. Location:
SandCastle
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Re: Important question about "and guest" . . . (Sending out STDs)
Posted by Laura1976
I'm sending out my STD's this week. Even people that will be invited with a guest, i'm just adressing their STD's with their names alone.
I did the same thing. I think it would look silly to put & guest on a save the date - imo
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Posted 12/5/04 10:32 AM
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BlondeJD
La vie en rose
Member since 1/04 4988 total posts
Wedding Date:
1/1/2003 12:00 AM
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Re: Important question about "and guest" . . . (Sending out STDs)
Posted by Soon2bMsZ
Posted by Laura1976
I'm sending out my STD's this week. Even people that will be invited with a guest, i'm just adressing their STD's with their names alone.
I did the same thing. I think it would look silly to put & guest on a save the date - imo
Same here--if I knew for a fact that they'd been dating someone seriously, that person's name was included on the STD. Otherwise, I just addressed it to the person with their name only.
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Posted 12/5/04 10:50 AM
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mrswask
The Dutchess
Member since 9/03 5840 total posts
Wedding Date:
8/1/2004 7:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Chateau La Mer
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Re: Important question about "and guest" . . . (Sending out STDs)
I agree - I would just send the STD to the single person's name - even if you're planning on inviting them with a guest. You're not asking a nameless guest to save the date, you're asking your friend to.
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Posted 12/5/04 1:28 PM
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FTRBRIDE
Mrs. R, Esq.
Member since 9/04 1438 total posts
Wedding Date:
9/4/2005 6:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Harrison House
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Re: Important question about "and guest" . . . (Sending out STDs)
Posted by jenniesunshine
Posted by Soon2bMsZ
Posted by Laura1976
I'm sending out my STD's this week. Even people that will be invited with a guest, i'm just adressing their STD's with their names alone.
I did the same thing. I think it would look silly to put & guest on a save the date - imo
Same here--if I knew for a fact that they'd been dating someone seriously, that person's name was included on the STD. Otherwise, I just addressed it to the person with their name only.
Same here too- only I put 2 names on the STD if the couple is engaged, otherwise I just put 1 name- no and guest.
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Posted 12/5/04 1:38 PM
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