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UPDATED: NEED ADVICE (DON READ)

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MuchInLuvMichi
It's An Obsession

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UPDATED: NEED ADVICE (DON READ)

ok so im outside of work and this guy and i make eye contact, hes so cute we r hecking each other out..i pretend to b on my phone so i have an excuse to b outside.... he goes in his car and then he went to the store next to my job....its obvious we r both trying to make convo with each other but i wouldnt make the first move even tho i was dying to...so then he comes up to me introduces himself and asks if i wanna go get coffeee?? mind u im standing infront of my job not even on a break just cause i wanted to c him, so i said oh i would love to but im working right now, ill take a rain check tho...he asks for my number, i give it to him, he says he will call me....did i play it ok, should i have taken my break and gone for coffee right then??? or would that have been to eager....do u think he will call, i hope he does.....

Don-- im trying to "Make him "glance at the cover" You don't want to give him "too much of the story" before he "buys the book"

UPDATED:
so he called me last nite..turns out we even graduated from the same college...we r going out Thursday nite cause I told him I was going to the Yankee game Friday.... :)

Message edited 8/18/2004 8:43:52 AM.

Posted 8/17/04 11:04 AM
 

HearzBellz
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Member since 4/03

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Wedding Date:
1/9/2004 1:00 PM

Wed. Location:
Harbor Club

Re: NEED ADVICE (DON READ SINCE IM FOLLOWING WHAT U TOLD ME!!!)


Posted by MuchInLuvMichi

me....did i play it ok, should i have taken my break and gone for coffee right then??? or would that have been to eager....do u think he will call, i hope he does.....


I may be a little out of practice, but I think taking your break might have been a bit over the top.

Did he think you were already on a break????

Posted 8/17/04 11:07 AM
 

don424
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Wedding Date:
10/12/2002 2:00 PM

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Jericho Terrace

Re: NEED ADVICE (DON did i follow ur advice well enough??)

perfection!!!!

taking your break would have made you seem way too eager.

Guys want a challenge -- if you let them win too fast, they'll lose interest. I'm not saying be a snob, but in this instance, I think you did the right thing.

I have a pretty good feeling that he'll call.

Posted 8/17/04 12:22 PM
 

MuchInLuvMichi
It's An Obsession

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1/1/2010 5:00 AM

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Re: NEED ADVICE (DON did i follow ur advice well enough??)

THANKS DON UR THE BEST :) ILL KEEP YA POSTED

Posted 8/17/04 12:44 PM
 

MuchInLuvMichi
It's An Obsession

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Wedding Date:
1/1/2010 5:00 AM

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Re: UPDATED: NEED ADVICE (DON READ)

bump

Posted 8/18/04 8:45 AM
 

don424
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Wedding Date:
10/12/2002 2:00 PM

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Jericho Terrace

Re: UPDATED: NEED ADVICE (DON READ)

excellent! and i like how you threw in the fact that you have a game fri night

Posted 8/18/04 8:47 AM
 

MuchInLuvMichi
It's An Obsession

Member since 1/04

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Wedding Date:
1/1/2010 5:00 AM

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Re: UPDATED: NEED ADVICE (DON READ)

hehehe exxactly, i wanted to make it seem like i have pre-conceived plans so we will hafta meet around MY schedule lol...

Posted 8/18/04 8:51 AM
 

jenny2penny
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Message edited 12/15/2005 6:29:53 PM.

Posted 8/18/04 8:51 AM
 

MuchInLuvMichi
It's An Obsession

Member since 1/04

3320 total posts

Wedding Date:
1/1/2010 5:00 AM

Wed. Location:
Unknown

Re: UPDATED: NEED ADVICE (DON READ)

thanks jenny:)

must admit im nervous tho, not sure what we r doing yet...hes gonna call tonite to make the actual plans...im thinking something short and sweet incase we dont click well:)

Posted 8/18/04 8:55 AM
 

jenny2penny
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Message edited 12/15/2005 6:29:47 PM.

Posted 8/18/04 8:59 AM
 
 

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