Bridesmaid Question (vent-long)
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FoxHollowbride0617
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6/17/2005 5:00 PM
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Bridesmaid Question (vent-long)
Okay FH and I are having an engagement party soon. We sent out the invites very early because we know the summer is a busy time. All of my bridal party RSVP yes a while ago including one of my bridesmaids. She IM'd me online a week ago and said she is not sure if she could come now because one of her boyfriends family members is having a party the same day and he already RSVP'd yes for them. Would it be wrong to ask that she come to ours and her BF could go to the other party? She is a very close friend and I am alittle upset that she would tell me yes a month ago and now say no. She told me she would see what she could do with possibly going to our party for a little while and then leaving for the other party. She is avoiding me now also and hasn't said anything since last weekend. Should I be annoyed or am I overreacting? Thanks for letting me vent!!!
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Posted 7/16/04 7:42 PM 
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MrsK-in-June05
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Re: Bridesmaid Question (vent-long)
 You are not overreacting at all!! I sent out eparty invites 2 months in advance so everyone could manage to get their butts to NY. Of course all my BM, said yes. Now one has mono (she doesn't need to come, i hate illness), the other 3 are just lazy bums and wishy washy. I am so tired of their crap. If they had the nerve to tell me that they had to go to a BF's shindig instead I would be hella pissed.
PS It is much better you vent here then to someones face. At least here you can get out the explicitives. LOL
Message edited 7/16/2004 7:46:26 PM.
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Posted 7/16/04 7:46 PM
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chichila15
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Re: Bridesmaid Question (vent-long)
I'd be annoyed, too... your friend already RSVPd yes, and her BF did to his party.. they should be responsible and stick to their responses... even if it's them separating for one evening. If it was a very close friend of mine, I would talk to her. Suggest it to her, and remind her that it's important to you that she be there.
Good luck.
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Posted 7/16/04 7:47 PM
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FoxHollowbride0617
Finally Mrs. K
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6/17/2005 5:00 PM
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Re: Bridesmaid Question (vent-long)
Thanks I think I am going to tell her that it would upset me if she didn't come. I will let you know how it goes.
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Posted 7/16/04 8:04 PM
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bogiedmb41
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3/26/2005 6:30 PM
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Re: Bridesmaid Question (vent-long)
I definitely think you should say something to her, good luck!
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Posted 7/16/04 8:11 PM
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OctBride05
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Re: Bridesmaid Question (vent-long)
i dont think your over reacting. i would be very upset too. i def. think you should talk to her.
Message edited 7/16/2004 8:14:32 PM.
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Posted 7/16/04 8:13 PM
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