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hugs213
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Member since 6/03 742 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/11/2004 3:30 PM
Wed. Location:
Leonard's of Great Neck
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Sunday WAS my shower!!! Can you believe my bridesmaid forgot..came late..and left within a half and hour!
Everything was great...very overwhelming. My garage looks like Fortunoff threw up LOL
My bridesmaid came and hour and a half late to my party...told me she forgot about it and she has other plans and can't stay long. I am soooo pissed at her. She didn't even stay long enough to eat because her boyfriend was waiting in the lobby for her so they can say hi and then leave. She took her $120 favor gift from my mom and left. Should I say something to her?
Message edited 5/4/2004 3:53:18 PM.
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Posted 5/4/04 3:51 PM 
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AliKing
Momma King!
Member since 11/03 2415 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/18/2003 7:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Woodbury CC
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Re: Sunday WAS my shower!!! Can you believe my bridesmaid forgot..came late..and left withing a half and hour!
OMG there is no excuse for that.. I would def say something!!
Where did she have to go that was so important???
ETA - I am sorry this happened to you 
Message edited 5/4/2004 3:53:25 PM.
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Posted 5/4/04 3:53 PM
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PrincessRose
At least I'm entertaining. ;-)
Member since 9/03 4669 total posts
Wedding Date:
8/29/2004 11:30 AM
Wed. Location:
Chateau Briand
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Re: Sunday WAS my shower!!! Can you believe my bridesmaid forgot..came late..and left withing a half and hour!
Yes. Yes you should.
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Posted 5/4/04 3:53 PM
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jill13bean
Where did the time go?
Member since 1/04 2894 total posts
Wedding Date:
4/30/2005 7:30 PM
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The wedding of my dreams!!!
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Re: Sunday WAS my shower!!! Can you believe my bridesmaid forgot..came late..and left within a half and hour!
oh my... i would most certainly!
What do you eman 120$ favor gift?
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Posted 5/4/04 3:54 PM
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tourist
Beyond Obsession
Member since 12/03 9094 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/9/2004 4:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Milleridge Carriage House
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Re: Sunday WAS my shower!!! Can you believe my bridesmaid forgot..came late..and left within a half and hour!
So, she wasn't invloved in planning it at all?
That was pretty rude?
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Posted 5/4/04 3:54 PM
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lilmrs
I am a conundrum
Member since 5/02 12034 total posts
Wedding Date:
5/17/2003 12:30 PM
Wed. Location:
Under a rock
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Message edited 6/4/2004 10:36:27 AM.
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Posted 5/4/04 3:54 PM
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nferrandi
We did it!
Member since 12/03 5367 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/9/2004 6:30 PM
Wed. Location:
The Crescent
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Re: Sunday WAS my shower!!! Can you believe my bridesmaid forgot..came late..and left within a half and hour!
I would definitely say something. What kind of favors did your mom give out for $120?!?!
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Posted 5/4/04 3:54 PM
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hugs213
Board Fanatic
Member since 6/03 742 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/11/2004 3:30 PM
Wed. Location:
Leonard's of Great Neck
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Re: Sunday WAS my shower!!! Can you believe my bridesmaid forgot..came late..and left within a half and hour!
My mom gave my girls Armani statues (and she really can't afford them that much so she was really annoyed because she is trying to save so much to make everything perfect)
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Posted 5/4/04 3:57 PM
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FLaCaTaCa
Proud Marine and Marine Wife
Member since 3/04 5863 total posts
Wedding Date:
1/13/2007 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Mustin Beach Officers Club
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Re: Sunday WAS my shower!!! Can you believe my bridesmaid forgot..came late..and left within a half and hour!
That was extremely generous of mom.
I would say something to BM....without a doubt
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Posted 5/4/04 4:07 PM
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shelly3950
I'm married!!!!
Member since 11/03 1965 total posts
Wedding Date:
8/29/2004 4:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Oceanside Jewish Center
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Re: Sunday WAS my shower!!! Can you believe my bridesmaid forgot..came late..and left within a half and hour!
That was very sweet of your mom.
I would definitely say something to your BM. This is supposed to be one of your close friends. There is no excuse for treatment like that. I'm sorry.
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Posted 5/4/04 4:12 PM
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jen110704
"I'm Addicted"
Member since 10/03 2084 total posts
Wedding Date:
11/7/2004 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Terrace on the Park
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Re: Sunday WAS my shower!!! Can you believe my bridesmaid forgot..came late..and left within a half and hour!
I would say something to her. I think thats beyond rude.
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Posted 5/4/04 4:12 PM
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nylibride
Home improvement expert now...
Member since 3/04 1095 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/16/2005 3:30 PM
Wed. Location:
Carlyle on the Green
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Re: Sunday WAS my shower!!! Can you believe my bridesmaid forgot..came late..and left within a half and hour!
 I can't believe the had the audacity to show up at all if she was going to be that late and then just leave. I'm so sorry that happened to you! You should *definitely* say something to her!!! (She should have been apologizing BIG TIME already)
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Posted 5/4/04 4:27 PM
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charlotte227
Married Life is Wonderful
Member since 10/03 1254 total posts
Wedding Date:
8/21/2004 1:30 PM
Wed. Location:
Huntington Townhouse
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Re: Sunday WAS my shower!!! Can you believe my bridesmaid forgot..came late..and left within a half and hour!
Be better than that rise above your rude BM let her keep the shoes and keep walking your wedding is too close and you don't need to be rattled
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Posted 5/4/04 8:51 PM
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fairylise
We're married!!! :)
Member since 12/03 1124 total posts
Wedding Date:
11/26/2004 3:30 PM
Wed. Location:
Glen Island Harbour Club
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Re: Sunday WAS my shower!!! Can you believe my bridesmaid forgot..came late..and left within a half and hour!
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Posted 5/4/04 9:25 PM
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JuneBride2005
Board Fanatic
Member since 2/04 804 total posts
Wedding Date:
6/10/2005 4:30 PM
Wed. Location:
Hamlet Willow Creek
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Re: Sunday WAS my shower!!! Can you believe my bridesmaid forgot..came late..and left within a half and hour!
Extremely rude! You should definitely say something to her! You deserve better than that!!!!!!!!!!
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Posted 5/4/04 9:31 PM
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Janine24
We could not ask for more...
Member since 7/03 3945 total posts
Wedding Date:
11/7/2004 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Swan Club...WOW!!!
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Re: Sunday WAS my shower!!! Can you believe my bridesmaid forgot..came late..and left within a half and hour!
I would def talk to her but don't come out and say you are 'pissed' at her... she may feel you are 'attacking' her... maybe you could sit down w/ her and ask why she couldn't stay and express that you were hurt by that... I am sure she will understand and you two can work things out... she may not realize how important she is to you to be involved in the wedding... good luck
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Posted 5/4/04 9:36 PM
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myasmom
My Sheri Amore...
Member since 1/04 2598 total posts
Wedding Date:
5/29/2004 5:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Coral House, nantuket deck!
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Re: Sunday WAS my shower!!! Can you believe my bridesmaid forgot..came late..and left within a half and hour!
I agree dont attack but rather let her know you were hurt 
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Posted 5/4/04 9:59 PM
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FrescaBride
Dance Like No One Is Watching!
Member since 3/04 2513 total posts
Wedding Date:
4/30/2005 6:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Woodbury Country Club (10+++)
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Re: Sunday WAS my shower!!! Can you believe my bridesmaid forgot..came late..and left within a half and hour!
I'd definitely let her know how disappointed you were that she was unable to stay on such an important date for you and share the special moment. I'd also try to find out what kept her from staying. I think by letting her know how important it is for you that your BM share with you all the joy and to have them there for support means a lot to you. This might help her realize how important this is for you if she is taking it lightly and be there for you the way it is supposed to be on your wedding day. And this talk will probably ease tensions and assure she is on time on the big day. Sorry you had to go through that.
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Posted 5/4/04 11:14 PM
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Spitzergirl
Still Walking on SUNSHINE
Member since 9/03 1824 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/31/2004 3:30 PM
Wed. Location:
Leonards
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Re: Sunday WAS my shower!!! Can you believe my bridesmaid forgot..came late..and left within a half and hour!
I would not say anything--(she knows that she hurt you).......but just find out where she was off in a rush too?
Friends like that go on the back burner...after you are married. You really don't need her!!
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Posted 5/4/04 11:35 PM
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