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Rob-luvs-me
It's A Sickness!
Member since 10/02 5027 total posts
Wedding Date:
4/24/2004 4:30 PM
Wed. Location:
The Cherry Valley Club
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My MOH spoke to me from atlantic city last night....
Ok this sentense WOULD not normally be BAD expect what would you say IF I TOLD YOU MY SHOWER AND FIRST DRESS FITTING WERE THIS FRIDAY AND SAT.
She asked me earlier this week to call her on wed to finalize our day on friday (I fly back to NY today)
SO I call her and she tells me "OH I can't talk I am in Atlantic city - We are going on the WB morning show tomorrow morning and maybe friday - so I have no idea when I will be back in NY it depends on when THEY BRING ME BACK so don't count on me for FRIDAY OR SAT!!!!!!!!!! I might be there but honestly I just don't know - Have to go BYE and HUNG UP.
I spoke to one of my BM's who tells me "oh yeah she called me this afternoon to tell me she was going and hadn't taken care of what she was supposed to for the shower"
Can you believe this - first one BM ruins the shower by telling me 1st the date then later on WHERE it was. NOW my MOH might not even show for my shower.
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Posted 2/26/04 10:34 AM 
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divabride
Being Bridezilla aint so bad!
Member since 12/03 7026 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/9/2005 3:00 PM
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Re: My MOH spoke to me from atlantic city last night....
Oh, Im sooooo sorry hon. I wouldnt hold this in though. I'd let them know exactly how you feel. That just isnt right what their doing!!!
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Posted 2/26/04 10:43 AM
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Rainmama
Good day sunshine
Member since 1/04 4577 total posts
Wedding Date:
9/18/2004 4:00 PM
Wed. Location:
there's
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Re: My MOH spoke to me from atlantic city last night....
Hmmm....some nerve. I agree, I'd let her have it!
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Posted 2/26/04 10:45 AM
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Rob-luvs-me
It's A Sickness!
Member since 10/02 5027 total posts
Wedding Date:
4/24/2004 4:30 PM
Wed. Location:
The Cherry Valley Club
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Re: My MOH spoke to me from atlantic city last night....
this same girl show up 1 1/2 hours late for the e-party with NO excuse or anything - she spoke to the BM's they all met in OCT and she was supposed to call my mom and start the shower planning she told them EVERY week she would take care of it - finally the girls approached my mom after christmas since she hadn't done anything and she told everyone she was completely unavailable in the month of January
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Posted 2/26/04 10:48 AM
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PrincessRose
At least I'm entertaining. ;-)
Member since 9/03 4669 total posts
Wedding Date:
8/29/2004 11:30 AM
Wed. Location:
Chateau Briand
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Re: My MOH spoke to me from atlantic city last night....
Bunch of crazies, I tell you. 
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Posted 2/26/04 10:49 AM
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NYCHICK
It wasn't me......
Member since 9/03 4608 total posts
Wedding Date:
9/5/2004 12:00 AM
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GORGEOUS!!!!!!!!!
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Re: My MOH spoke to me from atlantic city last night....
*says coyly* ....more of that crazy gene
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Posted 2/26/04 10:50 AM
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Donna
Going to miss this show
Member since 7/03 2987 total posts
Wedding Date:
4/25/2004 12:00 AM
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Re: My MOH spoke to me from atlantic city last night....
Wow! Sorry she's so self-centered.
Enjoy your time in NY!
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Posted 2/26/04 10:51 AM
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FeliciaDA
I'm a Mommy!
Member since 12/03 11599 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/25/2004 1:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Thatched Cottage A+
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Re: My MOH spoke to me from atlantic city last night....
Damn, what a beeeaytch
I am SO sorry to read what I just read! THis is why my Bridal Party is just 3 girls total .. and I tell ya even one of those girls is making me nuts!!
I hope it all works out in the end. try to focus on YOUR day and not your MOH's self-centerness! (easier said than done - I know )
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Posted 2/26/04 10:53 AM
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jen110704
"I'm Addicted"
Member since 10/03 2084 total posts
Wedding Date:
11/7/2004 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Terrace on the Park
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Re: My MOH spoke to me from atlantic city last night....
I am so sorry.
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Posted 2/26/04 10:53 AM
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Stacey1403
Board Princess
Member since 10/02 10844 total posts
Wedding Date:
1/4/2003 3:00 PM
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Re: My MOH spoke to me from atlantic city last night....
Wow! I would be pissed
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Posted 2/26/04 10:56 AM
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MCDO15
You got Served!
Member since 1/04 4741 total posts
Wedding Date:
3/13/2005 5:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Giorgio's at Fox Hill
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Re: My MOH spoke to me from atlantic city last night....
how rude
just wondering...
what is she doing on tv w/ WB? i can't be that important that you have to miss your speical days that only come once...
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Posted 2/26/04 11:03 AM
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BillysBride
Board Fanatic
Member since 8/02 886 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/23/2004 3:30 AM
Wed. Location:
Leonard's of Great Neck A
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Re: My MOH spoke to me from atlantic city last night....
sorry to hear this, you never know people until a wedding comes around. Then they show their true colors. My BP started out with 4 girls now only 2. Sometimes things just don't work out and you have to get rid of some people.
Hope it gets better
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Posted 2/26/04 11:07 AM
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endlessluv429
Still feel like a newlywed!
Member since 10/02 4396 total posts
Wedding Date:
11/6/2004 12:00 AM
Wed. Location:
North Ritz Club
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Re: My MOH spoke to me from atlantic city last night....
ahhhhhhh      that really stinks. i'm sorry. i would voice my dissapointment to her. not that you should guilt her into coming, but is there a way you could get your message across maybe via another BM? Is this particular girl friendly with your other BM's? i'm sorry you're dealing with this.
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Posted 2/26/04 11:07 AM
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Rob-luvs-me
It's A Sickness!
Member since 10/02 5027 total posts
Wedding Date:
4/24/2004 4:30 PM
Wed. Location:
The Cherry Valley Club
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Re: My MOH spoke to me from atlantic city last night....
Posted by MCDO15
how rude
just wondering...
what is she doing on tv w/ WB? i can't be that important that you have to miss your speical days that only come once...
Well I have no idea - when I called she sounded like she was at a party or a club - we only spoke for 1 minute she said something about promoting their show? don't know who "their" is either? All she said was that she was there to go tv and she didn't know when THEY would bring her back - then she had to go and hung up! If she doesn't show we will have to have a LONG talk - it isn't bad enough I have to deal with two crazy bm's with their own issues (one who causes drama - telling me where the shower is etc, the other fighting over WHO she will and will NOT walk with - the other two are the only ones NOT causing some sort of drama - FH says HE CAN"T WAIT until they get married because PAYBACK IS A BIOTCH
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Posted 2/26/04 11:08 AM
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Kriss2c
Don't pet the sweaty things!!
Member since 1/04 4830 total posts
Wedding Date:
9/18/2004 11:00 AM
Wed. Location:
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Re: My MOH spoke to me from atlantic city last night....
I'm gonna play devil's advocate for a second here: any chance this all an act to throw you off about a surprise at your shower??
OK, now back to my initial reaction.... holy horse stuff!!! What a female dog!!!
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Posted 2/26/04 11:12 AM
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brideinapril
My First Love.....
Member since 11/03 4449 total posts
Wedding Date:
4/17/2004 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Rockhill in Manorville
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Re: My MOH spoke to me from atlantic city last night....
Posted by Rob-luvs-me
this same girl show up 1 1/2 hours late for the e-party with NO excuse or anything - she spoke to the BM's they all met in OCT and she was supposed to call my mom and start the shower planning she told them EVERY week she would take care of it - finally the girls approached my mom after christmas since she hadn't done anything and she told everyone she was completely unavailable in the month of January
I think they are all taking this a little to casually. This is your WEDDING. I think you should tell these girls how this is making you feel.
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Posted 2/26/04 11:15 AM
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steph4777
My little cutie pie!
Member since 11/03 2843 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/31/2004 6:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Larkfield Manor
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Re: My MOH spoke to me from atlantic city last night....
I am so sorry that this is happening. I agree with the other ladies, sit down and tell them how you feel.
Try as much as you can to enjoy your shower. Don't give your MOH that much power on your special day.
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Posted 2/26/04 11:25 AM
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eroxgirl
Mr. & Mrs. Eroxs
Member since 11/02 6601 total posts
Wedding Date:
6/19/2004 12:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Westbury Manor
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Re: My MOH spoke to me from atlantic city last night....
Aw Christine that stinks!!! But maybe she is just trying to throw you off? Just trying to be optimistic!! 
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Posted 2/26/04 11:31 AM
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Rob-luvs-me
It's A Sickness!
Member since 10/02 5027 total posts
Wedding Date:
4/24/2004 4:30 PM
Wed. Location:
The Cherry Valley Club
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Re: My MOH spoke to me from atlantic city last night....
From the fact that my mother was annoyed and the fact that I KNOW she isn't the type to throw you off - she is just not reliable - the messed up part was she told me last week she had business friday and she would come out during the day - then she said she was cancelling that - the plan was for her to come out and stay friday, then stay over and help the girls on sat - they are all leaving early sat to take care of stuff - I was wondering why my other BM sounded strange last night and made excuses why she couldn't talk because she had some phone calls to make
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Posted 2/26/04 11:35 AM
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eogara
Newlyweds!!!!
Member since 2/04 6592 total posts
Wedding Date:
4/3/2005 6:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Milleridge Cottage
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Re: My MOH spoke to me from atlantic city last night....
Question - who is this girl that she is your MOH? She doesn't seem like a very good friend IMO. I know the wedding's close but if it were me I'd be reconsidering my choice...
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Posted 2/26/04 11:36 AM
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bizzybridesmom
Board Fanatic
Member since 6/03 281 total posts
Wedding Date:
6/7/2004 7:00 PM
Wed. Location:
The Carlton
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Re: My MOH spoke to me from atlantic city last night....
Is it possible this is all a big ruse to throw you off
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Posted 2/26/04 11:40 AM
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Rob-luvs-me
It's A Sickness!
Member since 10/02 5027 total posts
Wedding Date:
4/24/2004 4:30 PM
Wed. Location:
The Cherry Valley Club
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Re: My MOH spoke to me from atlantic city last night....
Posted by eroxgirl
Aw Christine that stinks!!! But maybe she is just trying to throw you off? Just trying to be optimistic!!
This is the girl you met that day we did the museum and lunch
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Posted 2/26/04 11:40 AM
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Chloegirl
Can't wait for Aruba!!
Member since 1/03 3331 total posts
Wedding Date:
5/1/2004 8:00 PM
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Re: My MOH spoke to me from atlantic city last night....
Im so sorry you are going through this.
When things don't go right, I just try to remember that the most important part of this whole thing is the upcomming marriage...all this other stuff is the added bonus....but the marriage will be perfect!!
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Posted 2/26/04 11:50 AM
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eroxgirl
Mr. & Mrs. Eroxs
Member since 11/02 6601 total posts
Wedding Date:
6/19/2004 12:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Westbury Manor
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Re: My MOH spoke to me from atlantic city last night....
Yeah, I know...that's why I'm trying to think positive...I know her career is her priority but honestly I think she could put it on hold for at least one day, if not both. But I don't want to make you feel worse. 
I'm hoping she comes through for you!
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Posted 2/26/04 11:52 AM
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eogara
Newlyweds!!!!
Member since 2/04 6592 total posts
Wedding Date:
4/3/2005 6:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Milleridge Cottage
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Re: My MOH spoke to me from atlantic city last night....
Posted by eroxgirl
But I don't want to make you feel worse.
 I just re-read my post and I'm sorry, I think I might fit into that "make you feel worse" category. Definitely didn't mean to if I did. Hopefully the other girls are right and this is just part of the plan to surprise you.
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Posted 2/26/04 11:58 AM
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