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Hi Ladies. Sorry, finally here's a quick update on my MIA status

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Sassy
God has blessed me!!!!!

Member since 7/02

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Wedding Date:
5/31/2003 10:00 AM

Wed. Location:
Chateau Briand - 10

Hi Ladies. Sorry, finally here's a quick update on my MIA status

I know a few ppl have FMd me and called me and I haven't answered.

Just so much going on and I'm really really tired, and just down.

So on Friday morning, the 23rd, I lost my job. Yes, the job I traveled 50 miles for now over 1 1/2 years. The company, which has bigger offices in other states, decided to shut down the NY office, so everyone in NY has lost their job.
No prior warning, in fact we just renewed our lease. So w/o a clue, I'm now unemployed as most of you already know by now, but it's still stressing me uncontrollably.

If that weren't enough, my MIL is not getting any better. SHe is still hospitalized, and will no longer get treated for her Cancer, it is just too far gone now. Tomorrow she's headed for the Hospice center. Hopefully however much longer she has with us will be comfortable.
It's so much to bear, to try and hold up DH. To try and help him take care of the 'business' as he's the most responsible in his family on his Mom's side. And of course, he doesn't know anything about banking, etc. . . so me, the banker, is assisting in all that stuff, and I'm very much involved in the process and decision making.

This just really takes me back to my Mom's death as the 4 year mark is steadily approaching Feb. 4th.

So to my friends, and loved ones that I have abandoned for the moment.
Forgive me. I just can't be social at all right now and have to take some time off from being a friend.

Thanks to everyone for your concern and love.

Sassy (Liz)

Posted 1/29/04 11:22 PM
 

ChristineC68
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Member since 5/01

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Wedding Date:
9/21/2002 6:00 PM

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Re: Hi Ladies. Sorry, finally here's a quick update on my MIA status

Liz, I am sorry you and your DH are going through such a hard time right now. There are no words I can say, but I'll keep you in my thoughts We will be here when you're ready

Posted 1/29/04 11:30 PM
 

Sunny
I need a nap...

Member since 2/03

7281 total posts

Wedding Date:
10/4/2003 12:00 AM

Wed. Location:
Windows on the Lake

Re: Hi Ladies. Sorry, finally here's a quick update on my MIA status

Posted 1/30/04 12:05 AM
 

TrayLu47
Board Enthusiast

Member since 10/03

220 total posts

Wedding Date:
7/29/2000 12:00 AM

Wed. Location:
Antun's - Queens

Re: Hi Ladies. Sorry, finally here's a quick update on my MIA status

Hey Liz!

I totally understand your situation and I can't even imagine having to go through what you and Kasson are going through at this time. I pray that God will comfort and bring you both through this very soon.

My heart goes out to Kasson's family b/c I know this is a hard time. If we don't hear from you at this moment, we totally understand. We are all here and not going anywhere.

I wish you all God's speed!

Love ya babe!
Tracy

PS, If you ever need to talk or vent, I'm literally around the corner from you, don't hesitate to ask!

Posted 1/30/04 2:19 AM
 

swags1016
So in love

Member since 3/03

12235 total posts

Wedding Date:
7/26/2003 12:30 PM

Wed. Location:
East Wind- The Estate- A+

Re: Hi Ladies. Sorry, finally here's a quick update on my MIA status

Liz,

I am so sorry to hear everything that you are going through. I am don't have the words to begin to explain to you how horrible I feel. I will continue to pray for your MIL and the family as well.

Posted 1/30/04 6:21 AM
 

aliciahelene
It's A Sickness!

Member since 5/03

5545 total posts

Wedding Date:
10/5/2007 6:30 PM

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Re: Hi Ladies. Sorry, finally here's a quick update on my MIA status

Im so sorry for all that you havegoing on!

Posted 1/30/04 6:46 AM
 

dandj
Haven't been here in a while..

Member since 1/02

1955 total posts

Wedding Date:
7/28/2002 2:00 PM

Wed. Location:
Milleridge Inn - The Cottage

Re: Hi Ladies. Sorry, finally here's a quick update on my MIA status

Posted 1/30/04 7:01 AM
 

kelswiss
TTC

Member since 2/02

2304 total posts

Wedding Date:
9/27/2002 5:45 PM

Wed. Location:
Port Jefferson Country Club at Harbor Hills

Re: Hi Ladies. Sorry, finally here's a quick update on my MIA status

Posted 1/30/04 7:51 AM
 

MrsERod
Praying for Deb ♥

Member since 10/03

5549 total posts

Wedding Date:
11/1/2003 1:00 PM

Wed. Location:
Friend

Re: Hi Ladies. Sorry, finally here's a quick update on my MIA status

Posted 1/30/04 7:52 AM
 

anna
THANK HEAVEN...For Little Boys

Member since 5/01

6642 total posts

Wedding Date:
10/8/2000 12:00 PM

Wed. Location:
Flowerfield

Re: Hi Ladies. Sorry, finally here's a quick update on my MIA status

Liz,
Sending you lots of hugs and prayers.


May God Bless your family and send you lots of strength at this time

Posted 1/30/04 8:14 AM
 

jlf41
"I'm Addicted"

Member since 1/02

1007 total posts

Wedding Date:
3/29/2003 12:00 AM

Wed. Location:
The Vineyard in Aquebogue, NY

Re: Hi Ladies. Sorry, finally here's a quick update on my MIA status

Liz - you are in my prayers. Hang in there. Hospice is a wonderful thing. May your MIL find peace there.

Posted 1/30/04 8:26 AM
 

antoinette
Reggie- my hero

Member since 5/02

1639 total posts

Wedding Date:
10/20/2002 12:00 AM

Wed. Location:
watermill , smithtown

Re: Hi Ladies. Sorry, finally here's a quick update on my MIA status

many hugs to you and your family in this trying time.

Posted 1/30/04 8:28 AM
 

stacedz
It's An Obsession

Member since 5/02

3542 total posts

Wedding Date:
10/13/2002 3:30 PM

Wed. Location:
Smithtown Landing

Re: Hi Ladies. Sorry, finally here's a quick update on my MIA status

Sending you many hugs and prayers at this difficult time!

Posted 1/30/04 8:30 AM
 

Sage10.03
It's An Obsession

Member since 11/02

4365 total posts

Wedding Date:
10/4/2003 12:00 AM

Wed. Location:
Fiesole, Italy

Re: Hi Ladies. Sorry, finally here's a quick update on my MIA status


You will be in prayers....

Posted 1/30/04 8:36 AM
 

LizD
Go Yankees

Member since 7/01

4387 total posts

Wedding Date:
12/15/2002 3:00 PM

Wed. Location:
The Coral House

Re: Hi Ladies. Sorry, finally here's a quick update on my MIA status



We miss you. You, DH and your families will be in my prayers.

Posted 1/30/04 8:38 AM
 

Ronnie&Theresa
Weird

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3/7/1995 12:00 AM

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Re: Hi Ladies. Sorry, finally here's a quick update on my MIA status

I love you and I am here if you need me
When you are ready to get into the job market let me know

I have a few friends who are doing well getting people jobs!

Posted 1/30/04 8:44 AM
 

Misty
Beyond Obsession

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6/20/2010 12:00 AM

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Re: Hi Ladies. Sorry, finally here's a quick update on my MIA status

Liz, you know you and your family are in my prayers. I'm so sorry about everything going on. But I still hold firm that everything happens for a reason, and I think this job loss only means bigger and better for you.

Posted 1/30/04 8:46 AM
 

curly2003
It's A Sickness!

Member since 6/02

6627 total posts

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Sep 26 2003

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Re: Hi Ladies. Sorry, finally here's a quick update on my MIA status

Oh Lizzy

Times like these test your strength more than I'm sure you'd care to know, but it is for a reason. Hold on girlfriend but please know that your friends are here for you. I can understand your pain but if you EVER need me, I'm here.

Posted 1/30/04 8:51 AM
 

franksbride
It's A Sickness!

Member since 5/03

5489 total posts

Wedding Date:
12/7/2003 12:00 AM

Wed. Location:
Milleridge Cottage

Re: Hi Ladies. Sorry, finally here's a quick update on my MIA status

Posted 1/30/04 8:53 AM
 

VickiC
Something for Everyone!

Member since 1/02

2395 total posts

Wedding Date:
8/18/2002 3:30 PM

Wed. Location:
The Meadow Club

Re: Hi Ladies. Sorry, finally here's a quick update on my MIA status

Just take care of you and your family, we'll be here for you when you need us.

You're all in my thoughts.

Posted 1/30/04 8:54 AM
 

wacky
Happy to be ME

Member since 11/02

9976 total posts

Wedding Date:
6/21/2003 12:00 AM

Wed. Location:
Stewart Manor Country Club

Re: Hi Ladies. Sorry, finally here's a quick update on my MIA status

Oh wow Sassy, Im so sorry. Times may suck right now, but please do not get down and abandon yourself. SOmetimes in our darkest hours we need to take a break for ourselves.

Sweetie, if you need to talk you know you can call.

Posted 1/30/04 9:00 AM
 

Teri
Mommy to Emily :)

Member since 3/01

5491 total posts

Wedding Date:
10/5/2002 4:00 PM

Wed. Location:
Old Field Club, Stonybrook

Re: Hi Ladies. Sorry, finally here's a quick update on my MIA status

I'm so sorry to hear about all you're going through

I agree - just spend time with your family for now....hopefully another job will present itself soon enough.

Posted 1/30/04 9:05 AM
 

nrvbrd
Hyper One

Member since 10/02

5250 total posts

Wedding Date:
9/6/2003 6:30 PM

Wed. Location:
Coral House-Loved it!!!

Re: Hi Ladies. Sorry, finally here's a quick update on my MIA status

oh Liz, I am so sorry.

You and Len are in my thoughts.

Please keep us posted on any new developments.

We all love you!!!!

Posted 1/30/04 9:12 AM
 

Cira
What if ... ?

Member since 8/01

3463 total posts

Wedding Date:
6/23/2002 12:00 AM

Wed. Location:
Westbury Manor

Re: Hi Ladies. Sorry, finally here's a quick update on my MIA status

Lots of hugs to you during this difficult time. I hope your find your inner strength to deal with all this.

Posted 1/30/04 9:23 AM
 

Leelee
It's An Obsession

Member since 7/01

4030 total posts

Wedding Date:
10/12/2002 12:00 AM

Wed. Location:
Queens County Farm Museum

Re: Hi Ladies. Sorry, finally here's a quick update on my MIA status

Liz,

Please call me anytime (and I mean ANYTIME) you need to talk, vent, cry, scream, whatever!
I've been through this as you know and I'm here for you. I love you so much and I'm alarmed that all of this is going on for you right now. I'm here for whatever you need, whenever you need it!
Please stay strong and know that you and Len are in my thoughts constantly!

-Alicia

Posted 1/30/04 9:26 AM
 
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