Anyone NOT into doing the bachelorette thing?

I don't want to go to a strip show, don't want to get wasted......and I'm not sure all the girls will be up here in time.....I'm thinking the whole getting our nails done is nicer and more low key and can be enjoyed by all.....

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I am not.....I think my sisters are taking me to a spa instead.

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We've decided to do a coed bachelor/ette party. Neither one of us is into the whole strip thing and I think the idea is kind of stupid personally. We've lived together for over 3 years so the need for a "last hurrah" was over then! We're going to go see "Murdered by the Mob" in manhattan w/ our bridal party and either go out to a bar or a bowling alley or someplace after that. The show includes a 3 course meal and I can get a discount thru work on the tickets. I think it will be fun. I totally agree w/ you though!

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I am not having one eithr. I am not a 'bar' person, wouldn't mind going to a strip club just to see what it's like (not a big deal if I don't go).

I was thinking of going to dinner with BM and then going back to my hotel room make drinks, listen to music, talk - have slumber party.

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Were doing the co-ed thing as well. The spa thing is probably my gift to them so that dosent really count..
We were thinking of going to a comedy club at out for dinner girls only though :)

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i don't want to either...some friends might try to push me to do the donkey show...but i really don't want to do anything beyond that...(if we even do that)
i can't see flaunting the fact that i'm about to get married and having creepy hands touching me. eeww...i'd much rather do dinner and a spa too or something nice and girly. but then again, i never was a party animal.

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We are just going out to dinner. No wild, crazy stuff.

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FH and I thought about doing the co-ed party... we wanted to rent out a bar and have all of our friends come, maybe get a DJ or some other kind of entertainment. Some of friends thought the idea was lame, though... so I guess we decided against it.

Personally I'm not that keen on having a bachelorette party either. My BP is half friends, half FSILS, and I don't really feel like I could have the same kind of fun with both groups, you know what I mean? My FSILs know me in a totally different way....they've barely ever seen me have one drink... not to mention that I just don't have the desire to party like I did when I was younger....

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My friends and I always take "girl trips" so we're planning one for my bachelorette party. The guys are going to Vegas to party, but we're going to do something more low key like 3 days at and all-inclusive resort and just do some relaxing (and maybe a little partying thrown in.) We figure if you rent a limo, go out for dinner, admission and drinks at a bar/club, etc... the whole night will wind up running at least $200 a person. For a couple hundred more we can go away and sit ona beach for a few days without having to worry about paying for food or drinks.

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that sounds so good. I would love to go away!! we played around with the idea of going to florida for the weekend to get real tans and such.. but I cant leave my baby for that long and my sisters in the same boat :(
Oh well I can have fun doing anything with my girls

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I'm not into the stripper thing either - we're going to go to Karaoke at my favorite club at home.

However, the best Bachelorette party I ever went to was where the BP spent the day at an Outlet mall and then went to Applebees.

That was AWESOME.

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We are going to go for dinner at Lucky Chang's in the city, and then go to Karaoke at this club in the village that rents PRIVATE karaoke rooms...because TRUST ME...no one wants to hear me sing!!!

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We are going to VEGAS for the weekend and I am also having a dinner locally for the younger member sof the BP.

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My friend is getting married in March and she's doing the whole
bachelorette thing. she wants us to go to dinner, bar/club hopping and
to spend a night in the city. EXPENSIVE!!!!!!!!!! but I'll do it because it
will mean alot to her for our other 2 best friends and me to go. I think
I just want to go to a really really good restaurant and just have a low-key
night. I hate clubs and bars. I don't think it would be a good atmosphere
to try to bond with your girls one last night before you become a Mrs.

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I am not doing that either. We are probably just going to go out for dinner.

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My sister/MOH is arranging a spa day in lieu of a traditional bachelorette party.

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Posted by BoogieDownBride

FH and I thought about doing the co-ed party... we wanted to rent out a bar and have all of our friends come, maybe get a DJ or some other kind of entertainment. Some of friends thought the idea was lame, though... so I guess we decided against it.

Personally I'm not that keen on having a bachelorette party either. My BP is half friends, half FSILS, and I don't really feel like I could have the same kind of fun with both groups, you know what I mean? My FSILs know me in a totally different way....they've barely ever seen me have one drink... not to mention that I just don't have the desire to party like I did when I was younger....

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The best BP I've ever been to was a day at the spa & dinner at the CheeseCake factory - gotta love that place!!

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Posted by Soon2bMsZ

The best BP I've ever been to was a day at the spa & dinner at the CheeseCake factory - gotta love that place!!

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LOL - I know!! I just went there for FH's birthday in the middle of december and i've been craving it again ever since!!! If you dont mind the really long wait its the best place ever!!

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I could care less if I had one. I am really not into it. I kinda feel bad because my friend,MOH, asked me the other day if I am excited about next Saturday. I asked whats next Saturday, she said your bachelorette party!! Duh!! I really didn't want anything but I am going to kinda make everyone else happy. I think we are going to dinner somewhere in Carle place and then we are going to Escapes. I wanted to just stay local.

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I don't want any of that strip crap either. FH & I want a joint party and I hope the BP respects that

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actually I would love a joint party too ... MY girls wouldn't have a problem with it, its just HIS MEN who do ... THEY want to hit a sports bar or go to AC ..

Ah well :)

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I threw a Bachelor/ette party for my sis and BIL before they got married. It was a Jamaican theme since they went to Jamaica on their honeymoon. Red Stripe beer, jerk chicken wings, rum drinks, etc. Everyone had a blast! :o)

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Posted by FeliciaDA

actually I would love a joint party too ... MY girls wouldn't have a problem with it, its just HIS MEN who do ... THEY want to hit a sports bar or go to AC ..

Ah well :)

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