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civic24ex
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Member since 1/04 449 total posts
Wedding Date: 4/17/2005 2:30 PM
Wed. Location: Villa Lombardi's
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A sunday night wedding?
My parents are pushing for a Sunday night wedding. I want Saturday night. I feel like noone is going to want to come because they have work the next day. Do you think I am overreacting??
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Posted 1/6/04 10:49 PM
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mrswask
The Dutchess

Member since 9/03 5840 total posts
Wedding Date: 8/1/2004 7:00 PM
Wed. Location: Chateau La Mer
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Re: A sunday night wedding?
We are having our wedding on a Sunday night - it is substantially cheaper than a Sat night. It is the same fun wedding as a Sat night - I have been to Sunday night weddings and had a blast!! yes - there are some people who are going to have to go to work on Monday - but people have vacation days, sick days - or if you do have to work - you don't have to drink like a fool!
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Posted 1/6/04 10:51 PM
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CherylBooch
My little man

Member since 1/03 2820 total posts
Wedding Date: 4/17/2004 2:30 PM
Wed. Location: Milleridge Inn Cottage
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Re: A sunday night wedding?
If people party and go out for the SuperBowl... why wouldn't they come to a Sunday night wedding?? People will be there for you and your FI no matter what time, date and place. This is the happiest most exciting day of your life!
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Posted 1/6/04 10:52 PM
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AtticaQT
Greek Jewel

Member since 5/03 6199 total posts
Wedding Date: 1/9/2005 2:00 PM
Wed. Location: North Ritz Club A+
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Re: A sunday night wedding?
I'm having a sunday night wedding. I figure it this way - the people that do matter will be there!
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Posted 1/6/04 10:57 PM
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FeliciaDA
I'm a Mommy!

Member since 12/03 11599 total posts
Wedding Date: 7/25/2004 1:00 PM
Wed. Location: Thatched Cottage A+
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Re: A sunday night wedding?
I second that, AtticaQT... I'm also having a Sunday night wedding...
Sunday night weddings are GREAT.. FOr us, it was the only date that worked for us, and I've been to MANY Sunday weddings and had a blast.. Just do whatever is best for you and remember to make YOURSELF happy - don't worry about everyone else .. (you cannot make everyone else happy, after all...)
:)
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Posted 1/6/04 11:00 PM
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nan&dave
"I'm Addicted"

Member since 10/03 2258 total posts
Wedding Date: 4/2/2005 12:00 AM
Wed. Location: Bridgeview Yacht Club
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Re: A sunday night wedding?
Can you do it around a holiday weekend, where your guests would have that Monday off? I've gone to Sunday night weddings, but just leave early. If the people really want to be there, they'll show up. Trust me.
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Posted 1/6/04 11:03 PM
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civic24ex
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Member since 1/04 449 total posts
Wedding Date: 4/17/2005 2:30 PM
Wed. Location: Villa Lombardi's
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Re: A sunday night wedding?
Thanks for the insight, I feel better about it. I think itsjust that Ive been engaged since christmas and they've taken over already. I didnt know they'd be driving me crazy so soon!
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Posted 1/6/04 11:03 PM
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jvs77
Happily Married

Member since 6/03 2838 total posts
Wedding Date: 9/23/2004 6:00 PM
Wed. Location: Riviera Waterfront Caterers
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Re: A sunday night wedding?
I'm having (gasp!) a Thursday night wedding! The people who matter most will be at your wedding no matter what day or time it is! If work the next day really bothers you, maybe you should consider a Fri. night wedding - the cost should be similar to a Sunday night.
Good luck!
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Posted 1/6/04 11:21 PM
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AJsMommy122
Happily Ever After!

Member since 12/03 10711 total posts
Wedding Date: 2/20/2005 12:00 AM
Wed. Location: SandCastle
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Re: A sunday night wedding?
Im another sunday night bride! Its the only way I could get the hall I wanted!! Plus the next day is a holiday!! no work!!
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Posted 1/6/04 11:24 PM
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wenndypoo
"I'm Addicted"
Member since 1/03 2390 total posts
Wedding Date: 4/16/2004 5:30 PM
Wed. Location: Flowerfield
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Re: A sunday night wedding?
Why are they pushing for a Sunday? Is it a cost issue? If so, that is a pretty big consideration. But I do think you should try to regain control of your wedding plans! I agree with the other girls, the people who want to be there with you will make it no matter what.
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Posted 1/7/04 12:20 AM
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tourist
Beyond Obsession
Member since 12/03 9094 total posts
Wedding Date: 10/9/2004 4:00 PM
Wed. Location: Milleridge Carriage House
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Re: A sunday night wedding?
I was looking into a Sunday but at the Milleridge it wasn't a big price difference, and Sartuday was avaialable, so ask them to keep an open mind untill you price some places.
Sunday is fine, but it may be a little harder for OOT guests.
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Posted 1/7/04 12:26 AM
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jenny2penny
Board Princess

Member since 1/03 11743 total posts
Wedding Date: 1/1/2012 7:00 PM
Wed. Location: *
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Re: A sunday night wedding?
I always felt no matter what the date, those who matter most will be there to celebrate with you 2.
I am a sunday wedding of labor day weekend. Did you look around to see if places have a sunday of a holiday weekend.
For me the sunday of labor day actually works a lot better for out of staters. They have a few days to travel to us and return home when it's over, with minimal time off work.
People can make a sacrific and suck up a few days of feeling tired. I think it's well worth it!
Edit: I hate to say it, but you might learn who is really worth keeping in your life from who shows up,,,and with no comments
Message edited 1/7/2004 7:25:49 AM.
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Posted 1/7/04 6:58 AM
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RedHead
6 people and counting :*

Member since 10/03 18761 total posts
Wedding Date: 10/2/2004 12:00 AM
Wed. Location: Fox Hollow :)
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Re: A sunday night wedding?
Posted by CherylBooch
If people party and go out for the SuperBowl... why wouldn't they come to a Sunday night wedding?? People will be there for you and your FI no matter what time, date and place. This is the happiest most exciting day of your life!
DITTO...
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Posted 1/7/04 7:04 AM
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janet
MRS. LONLY

Member since 3/02 1810 total posts
Wedding Date: 2/29/2004 6:00 PM
Wed. Location: East Wind Catereing Hall
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Re: A sunday night wedding?
I am another sunday bride! I had no othe chose but a sunday! that was the agreement with wbli.at first I was not happy about it but after a while i relizesd that if they want to come for you they will be there no matter what. and if not oh well there lost on the best wedding they would ever be too! have that kinda attatuide about it and you will be fine!!!
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Posted 1/7/04 8:26 AM
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VickiC
Something for Everyone!

Member since 1/02 2395 total posts
Wedding Date: 8/18/2002 3:30 PM
Wed. Location: The Meadow Club
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Re: A sunday night wedding?
I had a Sunday night wedding and had over 150 guests there. No one started to leave until about 10:30pm. The reception was over at 11pm, so I thought this was normal. Even family who came from PA stayed until the end (and they were driving back that same night!)
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Posted 1/7/04 8:35 AM
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babybride
Love being a wife!!

Member since 12/02 2966 total posts
Wedding Date: 6/19/2004 3:15 PM
Wed. Location: Westbury Manor
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Re: A sunday night wedding?
I have been to several Sunday night weddings and they all have had great turnouts. Your family and friends will be there no matter what. And most Sunday weddings end a little earlier than Saturday night ones. They start a little earlier too, so you don't have to worry about people waking up for work.
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Posted 1/7/04 8:41 AM
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melanee
Board Fanatic

Member since 11/03 302 total posts
Wedding Date: 11/27/2004 7:00 PM
Wed. Location: Milleridge Cottage
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Re: A sunday night wedding?
the ones that really care about you and your hubby-to-be will make it no matter what day of the week
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Posted 1/7/04 8:48 AM
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shelly3950
I'm married!!!!

Member since 11/03 1965 total posts
Wedding Date: 8/29/2004 4:00 PM
Wed. Location: Oceanside Jewish Center
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Re: A sunday night wedding?
I am having a Sunday night wedding also. I can't get married Sat. night unless my wedding begins after 8:00 since I am Jewish and can't get married or Shabbat, and in August, Shabbat ends at 8:00.
This is your wedding! Who are you concerned that won't come because it is on a Sunday night?? Are they people you really care about?? Anyone who really cares about watching you get married will come if you get married Sunday night or Sat. night. I flew to Memphis for my friend's Sun. night wedding.
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Posted 1/7/04 8:49 AM
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JimmysBride
Board Princess

Member since 7/03 10135 total posts
Wedding Date: 10/9/2004 12:00 AM
Wed. Location: SandCastle
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Re: A sunday night wedding?
Posted by jenny2penny
I always felt no matter what the date, those who matter most will be there to celebrate with you 2.
Exactly!! Have you considered a Friday night? You get a discount like you do for Sunday but most people will have off on Saturday.
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Posted 1/7/04 8:59 AM
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brideinapril
My First Love.....

Member since 11/03 4449 total posts
Wedding Date: 4/17/2004 3:00 PM
Wed. Location: Rockhill in Manorville
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Re: A sunday night wedding?
My brother had a Sunday night wedding, everyone invited was there, it didn't stop anyone from having a great time. It was also on fathers day.
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Posted 1/7/04 9:19 AM
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dawnie
Justin's Mommy

Member since 9/01 2818 total posts
Wedding Date: 3/30/2003 12:00 AM
Wed. Location: Flowerfield A+
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Re: A sunday night wedding?
I had a Sunday night wedding. Everyone came and hardly anyone left early! Plus..I saved money. That was a plus!
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Posted 1/7/04 9:20 AM
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BMD'sPeanut
Rock The Casbah!

Member since 10/03 8733 total posts
Wedding Date: 10/24/2004 3:00 PM
Wed. Location: Westbury Manor
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Re: A sunday night wedding?
Another Sunday bride!
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Posted 1/7/04 9:37 AM
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xjulietx
It's A Sickness!

Member since 4/03 6637 total posts
Wedding Date: 6/20/2004 3:30 PM
Wed. Location: Westbury Manor
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Re: A sunday night wedding?
I'm a Sunday bride and I have gone to a few Sunday weddings and found that they are great for people who have to get to you from far away. It is also good if you have family members who normally work on Saturdays.
It will be fine.
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Posted 1/7/04 9:48 AM
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Spitzergirl
Still Walking on SUNSHINE

Member since 9/03 1824 total posts
Wedding Date: 7/31/2004 3:30 PM
Wed. Location: Leonards
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Re: A sunday night wedding?
Hi Civic....
Sure people would come, but they will be leaving early. Unless the day before is a major holiday. Why don't you go for that option?
Good Luck
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Posted 1/7/04 9:51 AM
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Robeymuse
happily married :-)

Member since 1/03 3000 total posts
Wedding Date: 5/16/2004 4:00 PM
Wed. Location: North Ritz Club
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Re: A sunday night wedding?
I am having a Sunday Night Wedding. Half of our guests are from Out of Town and if we had it on Saturday they would have to take Friday off from work to fly in. Now they can fly in Saturday and take off Monday. Either way, they have to probably take a day off so it didn't really matter. We have already heard from guest who are coming on Thursday and staying until Monday-Tuesday. Point is, the people who really want to be there, will find a way.
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Posted 1/7/04 10:17 AM
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