Wanted to kill Dh this weekend-Came home wasted out of his mind Sat night at 5am. Was worthless

on Sunday. We were supposed to go pick up a xmas tree and he slept all day and was sick most of it also.

We didnt argue yesterday, but he knew I was fuming. He did nothing but apologize last night and this morning

Should I keep him suffering longer?

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I know this is not advice...but knowing the biatch that I can be at time I WOULD DEF let him suffer longer.

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thank you. Im not mad that he went out or came home that late. Im annoyed because he is almost 40 yrs old and he drinks like hes 20 and then it takes him 2 days to feel better.

We had so much **** to do yesterday.

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I know how that is. Hubby never drinks like that but I do get PISSED when there are sooo many things to do and he is just sleeping alll day like there is nothing to do.

Today he was off and there are sooo many things to get done by tonight. He thought I was going to let him sleep when I went to work. Yeah right get your A$$ up out of bed, get dress take me to work and start your day. There is no time to waste.

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Latina I hear ya. They dont realize that our minds are always ahead.

Sometime I feel like I have a 36 yr old son

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Don't be mad!!! everyones entiltled to get F @#k Up once in a while!!! LOL

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Oh believe me, I let him have his freedom, but sometimes it gets on my F*** in nerves

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If he doesn't do this often...I'd let him off by tonight...

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Posted by Latina511

I know this is not advice...but knowing the biatch that I can be at time I WOULD DEF let him suffer longer.

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Oh no he doesnt make it a habit, thank god.

Ill let him sweat it out till tonight. Im not good at being mad at people.

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And it sounds like he really suffered yesterday

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Christine I was actually happy he was sick all day, I know its sick but I was. I keep telling him he cant handle it anymore.

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Ah, it's part of that "If you're gonna play, you gotta pay" mantra.

And I'll admit you learn that lesson better as you get older

My DH is such a scootch - he NEVER gets hungover!! He can drink like he has hollow legs and wake up bright eyed and bushy tailed early the next morning. Meanwhile, the designated driver (ME!!) that stayed up and out late is exhausted in the morning

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Christina, Dh wanted me to pick him up at 3am, he called all drunk and I toldhim to take a cab, poor ******* was all mad but too bad

Believe me he can put it away but he def is slowing down

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There is no way I would drag myself out of bed at 3 o'clock in the morning to get him!! Oh, and I'd make him work out another way to go get the car the next day

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Men are impossible, although I shouldnt talk

I called my hubby when we were broken up 3years ago to pick me and my friends up at 4am because we were so wasted

I called it love, there was no way I would have done it

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You see, I would pick him up, but he would have to hear it and pay up! lol Todd can't hang like he used to.. He gets drunk alot quicker now.. he's back in rookie mode.. lol

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Marcella, I would have done it, but he said 1:30 am then he calls at 3 am and my ass was already sleeping

Pauls def going back to rookie mode.

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Marcella, I would have done it, but he said 1:30 am then he calls at 3 am and my ass was already sleeping

Pauls def going back to rookie mode.

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I know you are pis$ed, but he has suffered long enough.

Let him know how you feel/felt, and keep it movin.

Some things are so not worth it.

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Marcella I cant sleep without him also. I hate it when he is not home, but I was def too lazy

Nvrbrd I know, I wont drag it out, but I love when he pines after me. Making up is the best

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Marcella I cant sleep without him also. I hate it when he is not home, but I was def too lazy

Nvrbrd I know, I wont drag it out, but I love when he pines after me. Making up is the best

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My husband did this the night of his Christmas party and was VERY sick the next day. He was so so sorry for coming home late. I never slept just knowing he still wasnt home. I didnt talk to him until the next night.

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I'm LMAO reading this thread. Len likes to drink, but he's also back to rookie stage. He takes a full 2 days to recover