(vent) with 7 days left, my sister is pulling more stuff now....

all of a sudden, she doesn't even like fh!! (this came so far out of left field - she always said he was the brother she never had!)....i really don't need this now.....all along she has been um, horrible?? - and now she is again threatening to pull out...i had to bite my tongue - i think it may be bleeding - just to not tell her to forget it alll.....ergh!!!!

Re: (vent) with 7 days left, my sister is pulling more stuff now....

Wow... don't let her get you down--you have seven more days, then you and FH will be married and it will all be behind you... you can deal with her after you come back from your honeymoon!!!

Why would she even say something like this?

Re: (vent) with 7 days left, my sister is pulling more stuff now....

Sorry to hear that... sounds like she's jealous and just mean... It will all be over soon.. just try to deal with it as best as you could..

Re: (vent) with 7 days left, my sister is pulling more stuff now....

Wait - this all sounds familiar. Is your sister your MOH, who you used to be close with and she has been awful lately, you're getting no help from your parents with her, your FH was gonna talk to her - am I remembering correctly?

Did something happen to make her say that she doesn't like your FH?

I think you need to decide how important it is to have her there on your wedding day. If you want her there, regardless of her attitude, then keep her in your bridal party. But, if she is going to have a huge chip on her shoulder and bring you down on your big day.....jeez, this is a tough one, I just don't know.

ETA Hugs!

Message edited 11/9/2003 11:14:20 PM.